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I was emotionally invested in him.
I thought we could of had something.
Last time he stayed over he said "il sort myself out,il stop being boring"
He wasn't boring just into his Facebook as per,maybe he isn't cut out for relationships.
He wants more kids,I told him I also wanted kids.
I was emotionally invested in him.
I thought we could of had something.
Last time he stayed over he said "il sort myself out,il stop being boring"
He wasn't boring just into his Facebook as per,maybe he isn't cut out for relationships.
He wants more kids,I told him I also wanted kids.
This is not a guy to have kids by. How could he support kids, if he can't even afford his own place? He can barely support himself. Do you know if he's already supporting two other kids? Maybe that's why he can't afford his own place.
OP, you need to ask yourself why you'd be interested in a LTR with a guy who has two kids by different women, lives in a room, not an apt., is not allowed to see either of his kids (!!), and apparently was ok with dropping by occasionally for sex, but had no time to spend with you otherwise, not even on the weekends (what's up with that? Or does he work two jobs??), and is more into youtube (heaven knows what he's watching on there) than he is into you.
The fact that he's not allowed to see his kids (or so he says), is a huge red flag. Don't be ex #3 with kid #3 by this guy, having to get a restraining order to keep him away from his own kid, like the other exes. You have no idea what has gone on there, and you shouldn't be eager to place yourself in a similar position.
It's amazing to me how there are quality guys out there who really have trouble dating and then guys who are total losers like this dude get women hung up on them. OP, you should really seek therapy asap to determine why your self esteem is so horrible that you would even consider dating someone who is so horrible he isn't allowed to see his kids and has to bum a room to sleep in and a car off of his friend. And doesn't even treat you well. A few nice words mean absolutely nothing!
He spends the weekend with one of his kids and has done since he was born it's just the youngest he doesn't see.
He told me he had anger management a couple of years ago and did him well.
My self esteem took a massive hit,what I did wrong etc.
From how excited he was to spend time with me to me having to drag him out of bed to see me.
Maybe I pushed too hard,and it drove him away.
Maybe he is happy being alone on Facebook etc and I was too much effort.
When we first met he was so lovely,affectionate,attentive etc
It's only then he opened up about his kids etc by this point I had developed feelings for him.
When we first met he was so lovely,affectionate,attentive etc
It's only then he opened up about his kids etc by this point I had developed feelings for him.
So, un-develop those feelings. You developed feelings without a solid basis, without knowing anything about him. See how that doesn't make sense? You didn't have a complete picture.
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