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02-29-2008, 07:12 PM
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what if.....?
this has not happened to me but, someone i know...
suppose you are dating someone, you are happy with them, and they are happy with you. and one day you found out, the person they dated before you, they did more for than you. for example, when you are finished love making, she would lay there in bed. and talk... the guy before you, she would make him a sandwhich.
for the women, your man will not hold your hand. the woman before you his hand were all over her.
how would you feel?
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02-29-2008, 07:27 PM
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Thats it and thats that
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Location: Cackalacki
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Good question, now lets say, what is your friend NOT doing for her that the one before did?
Give and take, give and take
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02-29-2008, 07:58 PM
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Nicole-notice the lack of an "h".
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I would feel like I wish I hadn't known what went on in the relationship before. I wouldn't want to compare.
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02-29-2008, 08:34 PM
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Lost in Space
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Never compair one to another, a person will react differant from one person to the next.
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02-29-2008, 08:44 PM
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Not a member
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Join Date: Feb 2008
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Quote:
Originally Posted by medicineman
this has not happened to me but, someone i know...
suppose you are dating someone, you are happy with them, and they are happy with you. and one day you found out, the person they dated before you, they did more for than you. for example, when you are finished love making, she would lay there in bed. and talk... the guy before you, she would make him a sandwhich.
for the women, your man will not hold your hand. the woman before you his hand were all over her.
how would you feel?
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Medicinman,
I think you should not even go there, in your mind or otherwise.
The last relationship didn't work out. You know this because it is over. Why let your mind go in circles over something that is in the past, gone, finished, over with, dead, cremated and buried?
Seems a bit crazy making, don't you think?
Best,
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02-29-2008, 09:55 PM
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I live in NC but my heart is in Alaska
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Alaska, where women win the Iditarod and men mush poodles!
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I honestly don't care what someone has done with someone else in any relationship before the one I'm in. A relationship isn't a game of one-upmanship.
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02-29-2008, 09:56 PM
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Livin Life Down A Long Dirt Road
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Location: I live in Alaska but my heart is in Sweden
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Note to self: Make her a samwhich after making love.
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People may doubt what you say...but they will believe what you do...
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02-29-2008, 10:05 PM
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I live in NC but my heart is in Alaska
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Alaska, where women win the Iditarod and men mush poodles!
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Rance
Note to self: Make her a samwhich after making love.
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03-01-2008, 07:03 AM
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Senior Member
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Life here is not an Apollo Mission. Everyone calm down.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by medicineman
this has not happened to me but, someone i know...
suppose you are dating someone, you are happy with them, and they are happy with you. and one day you found out, the person they dated before you, they did more for than you. for example, when you are finished love making, she would lay there in bed. and talk... the guy before you, she would make him a sandwhich.
for the women, your man will not hold your hand. the woman before you his hand were all over her.
how would you feel?
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Are you saying you want to talk or you would prefer a sandwich?
Talking is very intimate and indicates to me that she really enjoyed herself...the sandwich thing indicates to me that she couldn't wait to get out of bed.
You could also blame the lack of sandwiches on the economy. |
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03-01-2008, 11:44 AM
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Senior Member
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Location: Marietta, GA
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Quote:
Originally Posted by medicineman
this has not happened to me but, someone i know...
suppose you are dating someone, you are happy with them, and they are happy with you. and one day you found out, the person they dated before you, they did more for than you. for example, when you are finished love making, she would lay there in bed. and talk... the guy before you, she would make him a sandwhich.
for the women, your man will not hold your hand. the woman before you his hand were all over her.
how would you feel?
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Two key pieces of information are missing here...
1) What kind of sandwich was it? If it was just some packaged coldcuts thrown onto a slice of white bread then I wouldn't be concerned if I were you. That shows a certain contempt for her former lover. However, if it was something like a reuben, whichrequires a certain amount of preparation, then i think that she really isn't that into you!
2)What does she talk about with you after making love? (BTW, none of us believe that this isn't YOU that we're talking about) If she talks about her future hopes and dreams with you vs. a ham sandwich on white bread for him, this is good news for you. If she talks about how much she misses making reuben sandwiches for her former lover, then this is NOT a good thing.
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