When it comes to relationships an kids... (guys, love, single)

[wclac]

Originally Posted by CoolHeat

Pretty types are usually the ones that want kids because they know the child will be attractive and have better success in life. Life is hard for ugly people.

Women who wants children, that's a large turn off for me.

[CoolHeat]

Hey I just saw there are women on here who don't want kids (I don't know if they're ugly or fat) but you could try chatting them up. Good luck.

Originally Posted by LAFan

Women who wants children, that's a large turn off for me.

[wclac]

Originally Posted by CoolHeat

Hey I just saw there are women on here who don't want kids (I don't know if they're ugly or fat) but you could try chatting them up. Good luck.

Personally, I lost interest for online relationships.

[momlady530]

Originally Posted by LAFan

Do you think 19 year olds who never want kids should wait for a few years till they meet a girl?

No. I think 19 year olds should wait until the truly find themselves.

[wclac]

Originally Posted by momlady530

No. I think 19 year olds should wait until the truly find themselves.

I already have.

[wclac]

Originally Posted by Sam I Am

All the more reason for you to wait it out...let everyone settle into who they really are and then make life decisions. Some of those young girls who think they want kids will find out within 10 years that they don't after all.

Life's a crap shoot - it may stay the same or it may change...no guarantees, my friend...

What do you think of those who put down and judge people who doesn't want children?

On Yahoo! Answers, a girl gave me a answer with this

"And personally, I hope you don't change your mind because the world doesn't need any more arrogant people like you in it!"

[b75]

Girls in your age bracket, imo shouldn't even be thinking about having children now or within the near future. So, at least for me when I was 19, your thoughts about this wouldn't have even registered b/c I knew the odds were I wasn't going to have a lifelong relationship with the guy I was dating at the time, no matter how serious we were. At 19 I was in college, considering my future career options etc. I mean I think eventually in the course of a relationship you should tell the girl, but at 19 I'm not sure it is necessary to bring up prior to asking the girl out. It isn't like you are talking to a 30 year old whose life priorities may now be evolving.

Originally Posted by LAFan

I already have.

[Huckleberry3911948]

Originally Posted by LAFan

Ok, let me first start of by saying, I'm permanantly childfree by a great choice.

If I were to meet a girl for the first time, should I tell her right away "Would you want a family someday or not?"?

or...

If I was in a relationship with her for some time now, should I ask her then?


If someone was in a relationship for a while, and later he asked if she wanted kids, and she said yes, would it be best for he broke up with her right away? You tell me.

i like your ideas & you are light years ahead of me at a young age
but why do you type so tiny?

[wclac]

Originally Posted by Bunky39

i like your ideas & you are light years ahead of me at a young age
but why do you type so tiny?

Me typing tiny, it's a habit.

This girl sent me a rude answer on Yahoo! Answers.

"And personally, I hope you don't change your mind because the world doesn't need any more arrogant people like you in it!"

Now what do you think of that?

[Sam I Am]

Originally Posted by CoolHeat

Pretty types are usually the ones that want kids because they know the child will be attractive and have better success in life. Life is hard for ugly people.

Originally Posted by LAFan

Me typing tiny, it's a habit.

This girl sent me a rude answer on Yahoo! Answers.

"And personally, I hope you don't change your mind because the world doesn't need any more arrogant people like you in it!"

Now what do you think of that?

I think that's about as funny as the comment about only pretty girls wanting babies.

I also think we're beating a dead horse. You obviously have your mind made up, so we're arguing/debating/discussing something long decided. We all learn a lot of lessons after 19 - don't be so sure you have all the answers just yet. You may be right on this one, but if I were you I wouldn't make my life views quite as widely known right now. Crow tastes nasty. Good luck.