Me:
Hey, I have a question (it is probably not a good idea to ask over texts but I have to
).
So, how do you see the things between you and me? Are you looking for something casual?
He:
Feel free to ask me these things In person, don't be shy :-). To answer your question, I think we have chemistry and I want to see how things develop. Also, I am not looking for something casual but instead, for something more meaningful. How do you feel?
Me:
Sorry, I got busy. Will text you later. (then I got back to him 3 hours later, I really got busy).
That is how I feel too. I am not really interested in anything casual. I like spending time with you, so yeah, let's see how things develop.
This was around 8pm. I dont hear from him the next day and also the day after so I texted him.
Me:
Let me know if you are going to be home this evening. I will be in your area around 8pm, and want to drop off the book.
He:
I'll be home at around 8 pm. Why are you dropping off the book?
Me:
I haven't finished the book but it is better to give it back
to you tonight.
I will be out of town next week. And I also do not want to continue whatever was going on between us.
He:
Why? No chemistry?
Me:
It is just not what I had in mind. I wanted to see how things progress and how I feel, but it is not moving in that direction at all.
He:
That's okay, no worries. Sorry it didn't work out. Don't worry about the book, view it as an early Christmas gift. I wish you nothing but the best and it was nice to meet you.
Me:
Ok, thank you. Nice to meet you too.
About ten days later....
Him:
How was your trip? Hope you had a wonderful new year. Just making sure you are well.
Me:
Thank you. I am doing fine. The trip was really fun. It was completely unplanned but turned out great.
How have you been? Still working on your paper?
Him:
Glad to hear it. Where did you travel? Did you have yummy food? All is well on my end. This past week has been a bit hectic as I had to prepare for my meeting with the professor but overall, I believe it went well. Any chance you would join me for dinner at some point. I apologize if I was distant before. It was a very hectic time and I was lost in my own head.
Now, I agreed to see him the following week and he kept texting me the entire evening and every or every second day up to two days ago when we met. The rest you know.