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Old 01-18-2017, 07:16 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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It's not about him not being on my social media it's the thought behind it
I still fail to see the "cruelty" behind it.

You really need to stop letting people have so much power over you.
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Old 01-18-2017, 07:44 AM
 
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You want closure which I can understand. 4 months is long enough that he should have given you a reason before cutting ties. He is a jerk for doing that. You need to get back to dating or doing whatever you can to forget about him.
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Old 01-18-2017, 08:40 AM
 
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You want closure which I can understand. 4 months is long enough that he should have given you a reason before cutting ties. He is a jerk for doing that. You need to get back to dating or doing whatever you can to forget about him.
No dating. That just sets you up for further heartache.
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Old 01-18-2017, 09:18 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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You need to get back to dating or doing whatever you can to forget about him.
Nope.
The OP should not date until she fixes - or at the very least makes progress - on her medical and emotional issues.
She needs to take care of herself before dating.
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Old 01-18-2017, 09:21 AM
 
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It's not about him not being on my social media it's the thought behind it
There was very little thought behind it. You are EX's. He was no longer involved with you in any way. Why would you think it made sense to keep you on there? I would certainly remove someone from my social media account if we were no longer involved, ESPECIALLY if the person exhibited emotional insecurities. Which clearly, you do. It's the BEST thing he could have done for you. You need to get past this dead relationship, and staying "connected" in any way, just prevents you from doing that. I suspect he knows that. So take it as a gift, and move on with your life!!
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Old 01-18-2017, 09:28 AM
 
Location: United States
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Nope.
The OP should not date until she fixes - or at the very least makes progress - on her medical and emotional issues.
She needs to take care of herself before dating.
I agree with you ... there is much to be done on the two fronts mentioned and dating needs to take a back seat at this time.
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Old 01-18-2017, 09:28 AM
 
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What emotional insecurities did I exhibit to him?
I honestly don't believe he gave a damn about how I was feeling,and removed me for his own reasons.
He has hundreds of people on his snap chat ..openly admitted he doesn't have a clue who half of them are.
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Old 01-18-2017, 09:29 AM
 
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I deffo won't be dating for a long while..don't think I could handle any more sadness
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Old 01-18-2017, 09:31 AM
 
Location: United States
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What emotional insecurities did I exhibit to him?
Nobody here can answer that, but I suspect he had his reasons for going his own way.
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Old 01-18-2017, 09:35 AM
 
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I think he's reasons are he is a #%$€!
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