Am I pathetic? He just removed me from his life ..

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by MurrayMoe10

Bad advice.

He did say, " ...only if you're really interested in him," and she does need something to get her mind out of this rut.

Another guy isn't the BEST option, and her track record of judgment isn't great, but she needs a jump start somehow.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

He did say, " ...only if you're really interested in him," and she does need something to get her mind out of this rut.

Another guy isn't the BEST option, and her track record of judgment isn't great, but she needs a jump start somehow.

Thank you my love for reading properly

Originally Posted by MurrayMoe10

Bad advice. Don't use someone as a rebound.

If you even bothered to to read not just that post but my further ones you'll see where I'm coming from

Plus she's going out on a date with him so it's neither here or there

[geminigirl7]

Originally Posted by Kellyanne29

I've agreed to go bowling with him next Friday ..no pressure or anything.
Hopefully just some fun

I'm sure I'm in the minority but as long as you're honest with the new guy about where you're at emotionally I don't think this is such a horrible idea. I wouldn't recommend sleeping with him right away but just hanging out and talking might do you some good. I've never been the type to sit around and cry for months after a break up though and for me I've always found it helpful to keep moving.

I don't think it's using the new person if you're actually interested in them either. Sure the timing is bad but it's life and the timing usually is (for me anyway.)

On a personal note, I met my late husband 2 months after ending a terrible long relationship and we fell madly in love and had an amazing marriage so not all rebounds are destined to fail.

[MurrayMoe10]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

Thank you my love for reading properly



If you even bothered to to read not just that post but my further ones you'll see where I'm coming from

Plus she's going out on a date with him so it's neither here or there

Sorry. I'm just concerned because she seems really vulnerable.

[Kellyanne29]

Well I don't think this date will be happening anyway ...
As he hasn't text since Friday and I sent a friendly message yesterday asking if he had a good weekend and he didn't reply but he's another one who has been viewing my snapchats (so has his phone)
Too be honest I'm pleased as I'm not over the other guy so I don't want to lead people on as its not fair.
It would make me just as bad ..I'm going to wait a few months and then maybe try dating

[bolehboleh]

You dodged a bullet. Any man who doesn't have the decency to break up with a woman in person is not someone you want to spend a lot of time with.

***Edit...I was talking about the original guy. I didn't read through the whole thread so I don't know where you are now.