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Old 01-30-2017, 08:37 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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15-20 messages total a day including a few snapchats isn't that much........

Dude
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Old 01-30-2017, 08:44 AM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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Dude what how am I supposed to know how many messages she was messaging me to. My last girl texted hundreds a day dude
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Old 01-30-2017, 08:46 AM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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Doesn't matter, what's done is done. Since you know so much give me some advice about how to proceed?
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Old 01-30-2017, 08:46 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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She is not your girlfriend so what your last girl did is irrelevant. You've had a date or two. Get a grip.

You've been told how to proceed dozens of times. You didn't listen first time.
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Old 01-30-2017, 08:47 AM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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Dude 4 dates in a week and slept with each 2 times in that span. She wanted all that. So did I. She invited me in.
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Old 01-30-2017, 08:48 AM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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okay thanks for the advice.
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Old 01-30-2017, 08:53 AM
 
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I never doubted that you are a loyal, adventurous, fun-loving, all around good guy. I got those vibes from you right away. The first day we talked you made that very clear and the days and dates after that too. It was just a lot of messaging this weekend, especially...And I just also wanna take things super slow. Like I said, I enjoy your company. ��
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I think I'm just feeling a bit overwhelmed with all of the attention. It's just a lot really fast and I'm not used to it. I'm trying to figure it out...
You are so funny. The girl herself tells you that you are messaging too much and wants you to slow down, but you want to argue with US that you aren't messaging her too much.

Have you ever been diagnosed with something? ADD? OCD? ASD? Because you aren't thinking like a neurotypical healthy adult here.
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Old 01-30-2017, 08:59 AM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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I know I am now! That was last night I haven't messaged her since and not going to. I'll probably say happy birthday and leave it at that.
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Old 01-30-2017, 09:00 AM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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I'm not arguing but every girl is different. I understand her now. Hope it's not to late.
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Old 01-30-2017, 09:06 AM
 
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I'm not arguing but every girl is different. I understand her now. Hope it's not to late.
You need to learn to stop, take a breath and LISTEN to what people tell you, especially her.

Do you think you can control yourself now? And stay in control?

Because if not you should not be dating or seeking a relationship until you grow up and/or get some therapy for your impulsiveness and anxiety.
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