Found out girl I have been dating has a swastika tattoo. (wife, women)
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This argument doesn't really hold much water. Like Fleetie mentioned above, I'm familiar that it's a very old symbol, but within modern times no one can really look at it and not think Nazi's, and if this girl does indeed have it thinking that it's Hindu thing, then she's an idiot, sorry to so blunt, just because of what it represents now, I wouldn't want to be with a woman that couldn't or wouldn't make that observation.
I never said anything to her when I saw it, and she is 30 so perhaps I am just being naive but I think it's possible she could have gotten it when she was very young and even if she did have racist beliefs she doesn't now but hasn't gotten it removed yet.
So you're thinking maybe she just went through a neo-Nzi phase? That assessment seems a little... shall we say, optimistic.
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Originally Posted by Griphin
Should I confront her in a nice way next time we get together or just assume the worse and just immediately end it?
In a nice way? How would that go? I'm thinking it's hard to find conversational pivot-points to a discussion of the Third Reich.
"So, Fraulein Goebbels, what's up with the Nazi tramp-stamp?"
There are a lot of fish in the sea - even if you skip right over the current and ex- Storm Front members.
So wanted to give an update: I talked to her about it, she said she got it when she was 19 and she was just really angry going through some life issues then and got involved with the wrong people. She said she doesn't have any racist or prejudice views and she would remove it but hasn't really had the money to.
Yeah no one seems to be able to read this, it was a swastika, she hung out with Nazis and tattooed their symbol on her back-- they keep advising maybe she's Hindu or the sign means good luck...
What's funny is, you were thinking she got it when she was young and going through a phase and hasn't been able to have it removed, and that's exactly what she told you!
There's nothing left for us to help you with, did you just hang up after that, or make plans for the next date?
My brother once got an objectionable tattoo in a visible place; not a swastika or anything like that, but definitely something that would hinder him from employment in polite society. After buyer's remorse kicked in, he colored it in with a Sharpie, day after day, until he could afford to have it removed.
So wanted to give an update: I talked to her about it, she said she got it when she was 19 and she was just really angry going through some life issues then and got involved with the wrong people. She said she doesn't have any racist or prejudice views and she would remove it but hasn't really had the money to.
yep, it can take more than $1k to remove it. I don't blame her for not have taken care of it yet. It is not like it is on the forehead and needs to go immediately.
So are you happy with the answer? Glad you didn't just dump her without asking?
So wanted to give an update: I talked to her about it, she said she got it when she was 19 and she was just really angry going through some life issues then and got involved with the wrong people. She said she doesn't have any racist or prejudice views and she would remove it but hasn't really had the money to.
So, in all this time, this hasn't been a priority for her. That says a lot about her character, IMO.
This isn't like her getting a tattoo of tweety bird on her butt during spring break.
But, you know that. You're just letting your little head do the thinking.
So, in all this time, this hasn't been a priority for her. That says a lot about her character, IMO.
This isn't like her getting a tattoo of tweety bird on her butt during spring break.
But, you know that. You're just letting your little head do the thinking.
Or it could be she's not gotten naked with anybody until now who got so freaked out he posted about it on an internet forum.
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