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Old 02-02-2017, 08:37 AM
 
Location: California
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Unusual, yes......would it be an immediate issue to question her about? .....yes.

If, in fact.....the gal turns out to be a cross burnin' , storm-troopin' racist dirtbag.........I'd exit now.

If for some (odd) reason she has it from something past, or something legit (?)......then you're probably OK.

Ask her......anything else is just drama.

 
Old 02-02-2017, 08:45 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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ASK her. I don't understand why adults can't open their mouth and communicate?


Maybe she was at a party when she was 21, got drunk, and got dragged to a tattoo artist while half passed out.
Maybe she hates Jewish people and reads MEIN KAMPF at night.


ASK.
 
Old 02-02-2017, 08:49 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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If it was some youthful mistake, one would think she would have had the tattoo removed, or at least tattooed over something so offensive.
Right. Turn it into the Windows 95 logo: https://twitter.com/gibblertron/stat...893504?lang=en

 
Old 02-02-2017, 09:00 AM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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"Gee, I wonder why all her blouses are brown?"

If it is a swastika, I can't imagine an explanation that would calm me. I wouldn't even ask.
 
Old 02-02-2017, 09:42 AM
 
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Au contraire. I would either ask as soon as possible or dump her immediately with no regrets.

My next-door neighbor's daughter, who's around 29, comes across as a very sweet and kind person - as long as she's around "her kind." I always thought she was very nice when she was growing up and through her teen years. Then her mom confided in me one day that she was brokenhearted because her daughter is now a Nazi. I have since learned that the daughter participates in Nazi websites and rallies. I'm glad she no longer lives next to me because I don't want to associate with anyone like that, no matter how nice she is to me.


Just something to consider, OP.


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Ok, but how would you ask, exactly without sounding like a creep? I was peaking at you and your jeans slid down to reveal ...
 
Old 02-02-2017, 09:53 AM
 
Location: Central TX
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Right. Turn it into the Windows 95 logo: https://twitter.com/gibblertron/stat...893504?lang=en

That link also reveals that there's a "good" and a "bad" swastika. I had no idea.

Aside from that, tell her you dated a Jewish girl and note her reaction. It should tell you all you need to know.
 
Old 02-02-2017, 09:57 AM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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The girl certainly has some explaining to do.
 
Old 02-02-2017, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Raleigh, North Carolina
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I would have to talk to her, even if it's just to satisfy my own curiosity.

Maybe she dated a guy who was a Nazi and he talked her into getting a tattoo. Who knows, but either way, unless you subscribe to those ideals, it would have to be the last meeting, as there really is no legitimate excuse.
 
Old 02-02-2017, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Ft Myers, FL
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"So! Do you have any tattoos?"
 
Old 02-02-2017, 10:42 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Yeah...... maybe it was a 20s thing..... If she hadn't JUST asked you if you dated a Jewish woman. That's not common conversation.


I'd take a pass.
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