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Old 02-15-2017, 01:10 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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He won't be available as often as a man without children.

I tried to avoid women with children. They can't do this or that or have to be home at a certain time. Forget doing anything spontaneous.

At 24 people want to go out and do things.

Future dates with him may be TV with the kid, amusement park with the kid, dinner with the kid, movie with the kid.

Don't waste your 20's.
I agree. Who wants to make their life less fun?
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Old 02-15-2017, 02:57 PM
 
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Not interested in kids unless the father is really hot.
He's veryyy hot LOL.
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Old 02-15-2017, 03:49 PM
 
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He's veryyy hot LOL.
Well, I think you should remain open minded then and give him a chance.
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Old 02-15-2017, 05:52 PM
 
Location: Sector 001
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He won't be available as often as a man without children.

I tried to avoid women with children. They can't do this or that or have to be home at a certain time. Forget doing anything spontaneous.

At 24 people want to go out and do things.

Future dates with him may be TV with the kid, amusement park with the kid, dinner with the kid, movie with the kid.

Don't waste your 20's.
Meh.. not everyone wants to do that nightlife stuff. Do what you feel vibes with your personality. I've never been a spontaneous type.
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Old 02-15-2017, 09:07 PM
 
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Well, you are doing it willingly and knowingly.
It's odd but even for the little amount of time he has available, he's still a needy person and wants constant communication even if we don't see each other more than once a week. Like full on convos throughout the day, everyday, while he's at work or home with his kid. He's just so darn attractive and smart that it's a bit hard to let go. Maybe I need to go on some other dates.
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Old 02-15-2017, 10:51 PM
 
Location: California
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Well, I think you should remain open minded then and give him a chance.
If the dude is "hot", he's likely already doing well as far as flings, physical only relationships etc....no matter how much attention is seemingly coming forth.

Just make sure ya'll let these single Dad's know beforehand you're with them because of the physical attraction only and you're interested zero otherwise. I'm sure you'll be accomodated for a night or 2 or 20....but be honest up front when kiddos are involved.

Just sayin, you dirty birds.
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Old 02-17-2017, 08:20 AM
 
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I wouldn't do this. You are still young and should just be out dating and having fun. If you do continue on, please don't meet this child, no matter how " cute" you think she is, it's not best for her to meet you unless you guys get very serious. I would say at least 6 months down the line.


I actually find the part her wants constant communication and seems needy somewhat of a red flag.
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Old 02-17-2017, 11:17 AM
 
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I wouldn't do this. You are still young and should just be out dating and having fun. If you do continue on, please don't meet this child, no matter how " cute" you think she is, it's not best for her to meet you unless you guys get very serious. I would say at least 6 months down the line.
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Agree.


In my 20s, I didn't want to be saddled down playing "stepmom" to someone else's child or being a full time babysitter.


I also didn't want to get involved with a man who had kids, because it wouldn't be fair to the kids to establish a relationship that might not work out.

If I were to become single again, I would not date at all, because I wouldn't want to drag my children into the ugly world of dating.
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