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Old 02-16-2017, 03:00 AM
 
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What are you worried about? That you're a rebound?.

( Only my opinion ) but it sounds like he feels guilty in leaving her when she was sick and in some capacity trying to make amends for it or even just be there for her... If anything is still there for him you really should ask him mate
Sorry, Cowboy. I have to disagree here. That's more tenderness than just " we were great at one time and I still care"

You are always so optimism and sweet. Allow me to be the jaded voice of reason and reality.
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Old 02-16-2017, 03:09 AM
 
Location: United States
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... Allow me to be the jaded voice of reason and reality.
That is precisely what some threads need ... and this is one of them.
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Old 02-16-2017, 03:12 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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Old 02-16-2017, 03:27 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Sorry, Cowboy. I have to disagree here. That's more tenderness than just " we were great at one time and I still care"

You are always so optimism and sweet. Allow me to be the jaded voice of reason and reality.
Howdy stranger!!!!

Yes it could well be on having a second look

I just hope the OP confronts/asks him about it and let's us know what's going on LOL!
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Old 02-16-2017, 06:26 AM
 
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The conversation itself was ridiculous. The number of times they repeated themselves without saying anything new is the language of blind infatuation. They have very strong feelings and aren't using their brains. I'm sorry, but you need to end this relationship.
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Old 02-16-2017, 06:28 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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The conversation itself was ridiculous. The number of times they repeated themselves without saying anything new is the language of blind infatuation. They have very strong feelings and aren't using their brains. I'm sorry, but you need to end this relationship.
LOL that's what I kept thinking.

"I miss you...I know I miss you too! You are so special.... I miss seeing you! ...Me too! You are an amazing person. I miss being around you!"

Ugh, get on with it already!
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Old 02-16-2017, 09:45 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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Mindful, of course of ToS, it wouldn't be the first time a first time poster had appeared with a barely believable post then never returned to it.

Perhaps the OP will return to elaborate, or perhaps there's shenanigans afoot..........

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LOL that's what I kept thinking.

"I miss you...I know I miss you too! You are so special.... I miss seeing you! ...Me too! You are an amazing person. I miss being around you!"

Ugh, get on with it already!
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Old 02-16-2017, 10:56 AM
 
Location: Sputnik Planitia
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I read those messages, sorry to say that does not sound like a conversation that friends would have. It would definitely be a conversation people who have romantic feelings would have though. So, there you go!
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Old 02-16-2017, 12:30 PM
 
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I didn't even expect so much feedback! Cheers guys.

It's certainly a lot to take in... I'm embarrassed to admit it, but I've been keeping an eye on the messages. My BF checked in with her again last night saying he wanted to say hello and thank her for the chats the other day. I scrolled up and it looks like they've been talking on FB daily for a while but I haven't read them... I feel terrible for snooping but in a way I'm glad I did, otherwise I'd never know about this.

I need to talk to him about this but I could do with calming down first... I'm surprised because he knows I have his password. He must have not got around to deleting them or maybe just thought I wouldn't look...
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Old 02-16-2017, 12:34 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I didn't even expect so much feedback! Cheers guys.

It's certainly a lot to take in... I'm embarrassed to admit it, but I've been keeping an eye on the messages. My BF checked in with her again last night saying he wanted to say hello and thank her for the chats the other day. I scrolled up and it looks like they've been talking on FB daily for a while but I haven't read them... I feel terrible for snooping but in a way I'm glad I did, otherwise I'd never know about this.

I need to talk to him about this but I could do with calming down first... I'm surprised because he knows I have his password. He must have not got around to deleting them or maybe just thought I wouldn't look...
How do you envision that conversation going?
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