Can women be naturally assertive in bed?

[TabulaRasa]

I also think it's interesting that there is an assumption that people are either forward or not. For many of us, is completely dependent upon mood. Sometimes, I'm in the mood to be more dominant, sometimes I'm not.

[funymann]

Originally Posted by Just Zola

We are strange creatures - sometimes we like to play hard to get, sometimes we like to take charge, sometimes we're a little submissive; and then there's the occasions when we're just not interested at all!

Picking up signals is hard sometimes - you can also be subtle, you can be blunt, and you can be wrong on both instances! (And I speak as a lesbian, and even I don't always know what another woman wants or thinks!)

But if you've both now found a common goal that makes both of you happy, then keep at it while the going is good because sooner or later either one of you might get a bit bored of the new-found predictability.

Mix 'n' match, as they say!

Originally Posted by D217

Wow. 12 years and you still don't know jack about women.. That's truly fascinating.

Does anyone truly understand women? Come on.

[Ginge McFantaPants]

Originally Posted by TabulaRasa

I also think it's interesting that there is an assumption that people are either forward or not. For many of us, is completely dependent upon mood. Sometimes, I'm in the mood to be more dominant, sometimes I'm not.

^^This. I would think it's the outliers who are "always" the aggressor/initiator, or not.

[NVplumber]

Originally Posted by TabulaRasa

I also think it's interesting that there is an assumption that people are either forward or not. For many of us, is completely dependent upon mood. Sometimes, I'm in the mood to be more dominant, sometimes I'm not.

STOP making sense! Lol, now EVERYONE knows that all humans both men and women follow specific , like patterns of behavior because our life experiences are all the same and make us this way. Were just like fish. Hardwired for specific behavior at specific times. Especially when...mating...is the issue at hand. There is full knowing and disclosure between men and women. Don't buy this nonsense bout Mars and Venus. Men and women fully understand each other in reality and this stuff about not understanding the opposite sex is just a smokescreen.


I mean hey, I FULLY understand MY lady's thoughts and actions. Never a doubt. She totally "gets" me to. Well, only whenever she wants me anyway. OK, I've had my silly spell for the day. I'm gonna get all serious again now.