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2) No wonder you're depressed as heck. You're pretty much a prisoner in your own home. First thing is to see how much money you've saved up. Work more to earn if you have to, then find a place and move out.
I'm 31.
Over $60K (lawsuit when I was 12 and was made deaf in one ear due to unsafe conditions at a community center swimming pool) but don't apartments go based on how much you earn per month, not savings in deciding whether to rent to you? You can add being partially deaf to the myriad reasons why I'm depressed.
Over $60K (lawsuit when I was 12 and was made deaf in one ear due to unsafe conditions at a community center swimming pool) but don't apartments go based on how much you earn per month, not savings in deciding whether to rent to you? You can add being partially deaf to the myriad reasons why I'm depressed.
Maybe, but I could be wrong. However, I'm pretty sure they also check to see how much you have in your bank account at the moment.
Since you have over $60K saved up, plus the job you're working at that's making you at least couple of thousand a month I'm assuming, then you shouldn't have an issue finding a place to move out to. I think most landlords won't consider you a high risk under those conditions.
The only you might need is a co-signer if you have bad and/or no credit history. Do you have that?
Maybe, but I could be wrong. However, I'm pretty sure they also check to see how much you have in your bank account at the moment.
Since you have over $60K saved up, plus the job you're working at that's making you at least couple of thousand a month I'm assuming, then you shouldn't have an issue finding a place to move out to. I think most landlords won't consider you a high risk under those conditions.
The only you might need is a co-signer if you have bad and/or no credit history. Do you have that?
I shouldn't have bad credit. I don't use credit cards hardly at all and paid back my student loans quickly. I would have even more money saved up if I didn't have said loans that I paid back. I don't know if I have much credit at all really, which could be a problem. Other than my student loans, I never have to pay things back. When I do charge things, I pay them back in full basically right away.
I shouldn't have bad credit. I don't use credit cards hardly at all and paid back my student loans quickly. I would have even more money saved up if I didn't have said loans that I paid back. I don't know if I have much credit at all really, which could be a problem. Other than my student loans, I never have to pay things back. When I do charge things, I pay them back in full basically right away.
In that case, it'd probably 50-50 on if you'd need a co-signer or not.
At the very least, you shouldn't have an issue getting a studio type apartment. With your situation, the landlord could even waive needing a co-signer.
But yeah bro, you need to move out asap. That living situation is not healthy one bit.
I think I mentioned it in this thread but really, I don't have time for that as I'm dying. Literally. My doctor says that I have less than a decade to live and it could be as little as a couple of years. I have multiple diseases conspiring to lead to that diagnosis. Hence, my wanting to experience things I have yet to experience before my time runs out.
So, what are you saving money for? a nice funeral?
Last thing I would be doing is 'saving; money if I knew I had years to live.
How would I go about getting an escort so I could lose my virginity? I've read numerous times that one should get that out of the way before trying to have a lasting relationship, especially if you're a guy. So how would I go about getting one taking into consideration that I still live with my parents to save money? I don't want that to be the tipping point for not doing it but have no idea where to start in order to do it safely and securely as possible.
Geeze dude, you sound like a sad case.
Here are a few ways to go about it since you cant get it on your own. If you are serious, you'd try one of these options and not come back with "Ugh, but I dont like...." or "Ugh, but I am afraid of...." or "But I dont have any money.....". Just stop with the negative "buts" and try one (or all) of these options:
1. Go to a bar in a hotel and strike up conversation with women there. They are usually there on vacation or work and many many times they would be open to having a little fun while away from home. All you need to do is buy them a drink and be able to strike up interesting conversation.
2. Visit rub maps dot com and look for massage places in your city (or city close by) and visit the places that are reviewed as offering full service. Yeah, they are basically brothels and illegal and are often run by Chinese mafia and/or savvy Chinese business women but your situation seems dire and this is a easy fix for you.
3. Visit the backpage dot com website in your city and look for escorts or bodyrubs/massage. Same thing here as in #2, you just need to pay what they are asking for.
4. Talk to the women in the "Self Help" or "New Age" section of your local bookstore. They are usually the low hanging fruit that are almost always outstanding in bed. They are usually there because of a bad breakup or similar dating situation that you are in and are just looking to find themselves. Strike up a conversation and you are golden.
Do what I say and before you know it, you'll be returning to this thread like this:
Here are a few ways to go about it since you cant get it on your own. If you are serious, you'd try one of these options and not come back with "Ugh, but I dont like...." or "Ugh, but I am afraid of...." or "But I dont have any money.....". Just stop with the negative "buts" and try one (or all) of these options:
1. Go to a bar in a hotel and strike up conversation with women there. They are usually there on vacation or work and many many times they would be open to having a little fun while away from home. All you need to do is buy them a drink and be able to strike up interesting conversation.
2. Visit rub maps dot com and look for massage places in your city (or city close by) and visit the places that are reviewed as offering full service. Yeah, they are basically brothels and illegal and are often run by Chinese mafia and/or savvy Chinese business women but your situation seems dire and this is a easy fix for you.
3. Visit the backpage dot com website in your city and look for escorts or bodyrubs/massage. Same thing here as in #2, you just need to pay what they are asking for.
4. Talk to the women in the "Self Help" or "New Age" section of your local bookstore. They are usually the low hanging fruit that are almost always outstanding in bed. They are usually there because of a bad breakup or similar dating situation that you are in and are just looking to find themselves. Strike up a conversation and you are golden.
Do what I say and before you know it, you'll be returning to this thread like this:
Sorry, but I don't care about them as people because they apparently don't care about/like me. I just don't want to die a virgin. Stop with the "Forcing them" crap. Women have free will. No one is keeping them hostage. Women aren't oppressed. They get more opportunities than men, especially if they're good-looking.
I would rather die a virgin than have sex with a creature that is disgusting to me... Why you would not want to keep you clean instead touching such awful thing as we women are in your opinion? I recommend to stay a virgin till you die or can heal your woman hate / bitternes. Then if you have it you would get 100% happy experience. Why to gain bad memories instead good ones?
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