My girlfriend keep messing up.(relationship advice needed)
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you say "She dont even deal with her family " so where does she go when you kick her out?
To me, unless her family is filled to the rafters with meth dealers, child abusers, or chop shop operators, the very phrase "don't even deal with her family" is a big fat red flag.
OP, grow up! Either you are in a relationship or not. To me it doesn't sound like she wants one, but you keep kicking her out! Who does that? Both of you need to go your separate ways.
Wow, you have a bunch of rules. Are you her father or boyfriend?
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DrakeCounty11,
If she did the same thing to you, would you comply? If the answer is yes, then you need to stop wasting your time. You guys are not compatible. Life is short find someone more like you. Maybe just stay friends with her.
IF the answer is no, you have one set of rules for her, a different set for you, then you should still find someone else because there are people out there that will be happy in that situation.
Either way, it's good to break things off now, before you have kids. Both of you seem to want something other than what you have.
NG
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Originally Posted by drakecountry11
Ive known this girl since we were children, but started dating her again for the last 3 years. My problem was she was living with me and she would stay out to 3 oclock when she did hang with her friends, which was about every 3 months. So I would put her out and hook back up 4 or 5 days later and tell her not to do it again......she just kept messing up doing it again and again....now she doesnt do it anymore....shes in by 10 oclock now. a year ago i caught her sneaking texting her daughters father from her daughters phone asking where a party was at and that she was gonna step out. and i put her out for 2 weeks before I let her back home. My problem is she is best friends with 4 of my cousins that I barely even know. She grew up with them on the other side of town. The problem is, is that she wont let me get close to any of her family or friends. Everytime we argue she would go and tell them a whole lot of things that I said. I asked her why would You do that because if you want to marry me imma have to get close to your circle, or at least be civil with. But calling them telling them unneccessary stuff is un called for. Almost like she purposely want them to hate me. She never bring me around her family...She dont even deal with her family and they known me since childhood. She bring her friends around to say hi and then leave. 2 weeks ago I kicked her out for a week for not waking me up telling me she was leaving. I woke up not knowing if she was dead or not and it pissed me off. It seems like every 3 months she F. up.....What you think.
Doomed. Move on. Unless you need drama in your life.
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