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* If you choose to give a number, use a burner. Never a personal number or home number.
* Carry only cash and id. Anything else you are willing to loose.
* Car should have gas... try not to stop in between destinations
* I would highly advise against going to a private residence. You have no control over the situation from the getgo...
* Choose the hotel. Consider one that doesn't have outside facing entrances directly to the rooms. One that you must enter through a lobby or alternate entrances
* Lock the door.
* Hide a spare key on the car. You'd be surprise how many victims end up loosing their keys in the process. It keeps you from quickly removing yourself from a situation.
* Never ever take on a assailant. Usually they operate in groups.
* Be wary if the woman is "checking - in" on her cell phone.
* Think with the "big head" not the "small one".
* If you head to her room, excuse yourself to the bathroom and use that time to make sure no one is hiding in there with you before you lock the inner lock/chain. Sliding door on the first floor room? Check that too is locked.
Okay thanks. But I find that sometimes the women are in the mood for wanting me for sex, but they are not so interested in a date that involves going out and talking. If they just want me for my junk, then they might not be interested in meeting for coffee. But I guess that is what casual sex is, is wanting a person for that, and not meeting for a date later in public so much.
But if that's the safe way to play it, I guess I should ask them to meet me later in a public place first? If I do that though, I still feel like it might be a set up, since she is only wanting one thing, and is not going to want to go on dates with me first to get it.
Plus I've tried the whole hotel thing but that late at night the hotels are booked up, and the odds of getting a room have been really low, unless you plan in advance more, which I cannot do when a stranger hitting on me is spontaneous. As for burner phones, that's more money. Is that really necessary?
What are the odds that if people are robbers from that part of town, that they would have GPS tracking systems, to track me wherever I am? Am I really worth that much trouble?
What are the odds that if people are robbers from that part of town, that they would have GPS tracking systems, to track me wherever I am? Am I really worth that much trouble?
Is a quick gratification really worth that much potential trouble?
Okay thanks. But I find that sometimes the women are in the mood for wanting me for sex, but they are not so interested in a date that involves going out and talking. If they just want me for my junk, then they might not be interested in meeting for coffee. But I guess that is what casual sex is, is wanting a person for that, and not meeting for a date later in public so much.
But if that's the safe way to play it, I guess I should ask them to meet me later in a public place first? If I do that though, I still feel like it might be a set up, since she is only wanting one thing, and is not going to want to go on dates with me first to get it.
Set as many dates as you want to to feel safe. If you want to get to know her before having sex, that is just great! Maybe sex after half year dating? After 2 years? Your body
Okay thanks. Yeah I guess the reason why I get hit on every couple of weeks around is that it might have to do with how I dress to, cause my female friends dressed me as to what they think looks hot, and it made a difference it seems.
Are you so hard up that you can't turn down these women? If you're concerned, then bow out, simple. Of course even going with those in better parts of town you may be safer from theft but not STD's, right?
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