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Old 05-09-2017, 04:19 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Okay so I work in Austin Texas and I suppose it is a city that might be friendly to lesbians, (I don't know, I am straight).

I am a Christian woman, I am straight and I am eternally in love with the man I am going to marry.

My appearance, I wear dresses and skirts all the time, I literally do not own a pair of pants. I am very conservative, I don't wear earrings, or nail polish although my nails are long, and my hair which is graying very beautifully and prematurely is very tightly and naturally curly...previous to wearing my hair natural I had been wearing a wig...think Vivica Fox!!

My disdain here is that I am continually hit on by lesbians, I suppose I could not really say too much if they were to inquire and ask me if I am interested....that would give me the polite and direct opportunity to say no.

What is actually happening is that at work, on the bus (sometimes it is the driver herself) and recently in Walmart, I have been approached by women...and by approached I mean, they try to make eye contact, I think some have even tried looking at me with bedroom eyes, one has tried giving me gifts, and one at work continues to try to engage me in conversation, despite months of my ignoring her..........and she knows I am a Christian and she knows that I am straight.....and in a relationship......and in love with the man I am going to marry.

....when do women get the message that someone is not interested....

So the thing is if they were to be human and respectful enough to ask me....I could tell them no.

this is very odd. I have been in many gay bars and clubs and in the gay areas in cities and hardly get hit on by women.
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Old 05-09-2017, 05:18 PM
 
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this is very odd. I have been in many gay bars and clubs and in the gay areas in cities and hardly get hit on by women.
I must live in an area with no lesbians because I have never had one ask me out.
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Old 05-09-2017, 05:19 PM
 
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by approached i mean, they try to make eye contact...one at work continues to try to engage me in conversation
lol
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Old 05-09-2017, 09:16 PM
 
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Op must be a smoke show... all genders are infatuated.
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Old 05-11-2017, 06:41 PM
 
Location: Atlanta
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Lesbian here. OP, instead of presuming that these women are hitting on you, why not wait until one actually makes a move? Then you can say you're straight and not interested. As others have noted, not all women who glance at you are flirting. Maybe they like your hairstyle or the way you dress. You should lighten up.
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