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He is. He's my husband. What I was saying to the other poster is that in my very first post I didn't indicate anything, yet most people assumed that I am the man.
Behindthescreen is saying that it happens all the time. That's not an answer. Why did so many people make the same assumption?
Where did I say that my SO is a man? I didn't say that at all, nor did I even indicate it.
But I noticed that almost everyone has assumed that I am a man and that my SO is a woman.
Perhaps you'd like to ask yourselves why you made that assumption.
Yes you're quite right
However the answers would have been pretty much the same either way but maybe it was worth stating in the start or you could have clarified much earlier on in the thread once you saw people ( myself included ) assuming.
Most people in relationships spend time with their SO because they want to, not because of obligation. Just another thing you don't understand as you continue to fear other people's choices.
I agree with this. I wouldn't be with my husband if I didn't want to spend time with him. However, that doesn't mean friends and hobbies don't have a place in my life. I do find it funny though. Like I know a woman at work, I told her I was going to Vegas next month with friends, and she looked at me like I was crazy, and said " your husband lets you do that"...um, lets me? I'm a grown up. He isn't my keeper. He can watch the pets and kid for a few days. Not a big deal.
I still think if a spouse is that bothered by the other spouse going out once a week, that signifies a bigger problem. Once a week is nothing, even if it is a Friday or Saturday night. Even if it is out for drinks or whatever the case may be. I would think encouraging your partner to see friends rather than constantly getting mad about it would be a better way to go.
Also, if the spouse is sitting alone all the time upset at being alone, that is their choice. They are free to make friends and go out, get their own hobbies as well.
I'd appreciate it if someone could offer some advice about my husband having such a problem about me going out on fridays and saturdays with my friends.
I'd appreciate it if someone could offer some advice about my husband having such a problem about me going out on fridays and saturdays with my friends.
I'd appreciate it if someone could offer some advice about my husband having such a problem about me going out on fridays and saturdays with my friends.
I'm out of touch now with the thread so apologies if this has been covered.
Could he be jealous that he's not as outgoing as yourself either because of his personality or has no friends?, is it possible he's slightly worried/insecure about the places you may go ( nightclubs/boozed up till the early hours etc ) and fears the worst as other blokes will possibly be about?
Or the most probable answer is he might just want to spend the weekend with you?
I'd appreciate it if someone could offer some advice about my husband having such a problem about me going out on fridays and saturdays with my friends.
lol, this fool gets 14 pages worth of responses and she wants more advice....
I'd appreciate it if someone could offer some advice about my husband having such a problem about me going out on fridays and saturdays with my friends.
Why don't you want to spend Fridays and Saturdays with your husband? Most couples look forward to being together on the weekend. Why don't you?
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