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Old 04-16-2017, 02:09 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Would he stand out at you in a crowd, though? Without knowing anything about his personality? Enough so that if you were a twenty-something model, you would gravitate to him? His comments about how he could have any woman he'd wanted, well, imo either he was a bit more of a catch in his prime, or he had other attractive qualities that were not based on looks, or else he did a lot of justifying that he "didn't want this one anyway" if she rejected him...

I'm absolutely sure he's someone's type, even many people's type. Personally I don't see it. But I believe others do.
To me, he would still stand out... But I do prefer them a bit older.. haha I might have strange taste, but I never get excited about any 20 something year old guys, no matter how good looking they are considered to be.
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Old 04-16-2017, 02:38 PM
 
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I think there are lots of men who keep their looks into older age, or even improve on them. I don't think this guy necessarily *lost* his looks (I have nothing to base that on), but he wouldn't catch my eye.

I'm glad we don't all have the same taste in partners, otherwise we'd all be fighting over the same 2-3 people, lol.
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Old 04-16-2017, 04:23 PM
 
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This guy and his fiancée are around the same level of attractiveness.
I agree. They both have huge noses and his receding hair and double chin go very well with her Charles Manson psychotic eyes. If I were bisexual I would not go near either of them but this is just my honest opinion.
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Old 04-16-2017, 04:27 PM
 
Location: LA, CA/ In This Time and Place
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God bless all those women who dated this guy.
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Old 04-16-2017, 04:51 PM
 
Location: Dallas Texas
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He looks like douche, shes not bad, not hot i.m.o. Her body and hair is nice, face is meh.
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Old 04-16-2017, 05:09 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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It's Janis Spindel's daughter, so I'm guessing this is just a ploy to get their name/business publicity.
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Old 04-16-2017, 05:19 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Hey!!! I'm 32 and I dated a woman in her (late) 20s only because she wanted to date me. I can adapt really well, thank you very much!!! hmph!!!





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I understand exactly what you are saying. This guy (according to the article at least) seems to believe that just because a woman is "hot" that means that she has nothing worthwhile going on from the inside.

Maybe that is just the experience he had in dealing with women. But there is a lot that needs to be understood. Tons of different groups are going to have at least one hot woman.

According to the article, he dated "runway models." Now, these people are paid to look good, they aren't paid to be rocket scientists, or philosophers. They are paid to look good, because they are selling. Now, even that does not mean that runway models can't hold a conversation. It might be that she was not comfortable with that person.

I know plenty of people who have great insights, ideas, wisdom when they talk to me, but when they are with a certain other person, they can't talk their way out of a paper bag, and usually it is because that person has an air of arrogance about him or a critical spirit. In other words, he makes you feel as if he is going to take anything you say and viciously tear it apart to make you feel like an idiot.

I myself am known to blow people's minds with what I have to say. But there are certain people in my life that won't hear a thing I have to say because they are just too arrogant and judgmental.


Now, this is going by the article. I've known people to twist words. But that "sowing wild oats" post didn't help one bit.
I apologise for the delay in response, This is a very good post

That's the problem with reading an article, a thread on here etc we only get one side of the story and then you end up speculating and even letting your imagination run wild trying to picture what's gone on LOL.

However obviously I've lived and been around a bit and known one or two hot ones shall we say and what I was saying in my other post is what my gut absolutely SCREAMED at me about him that he doesn't take people by face value and as an individual and instead goes in blind therefore not able to communicate and adapt as you would normally with different people hence the reason why he didn't do well and perhaps didn't know how to handle the situation.

I know and completely agree what you said above mate when it comes to meeting certain people you might not click and most probably due to them being the wrong personality as you mentioned a few traits above that ring true but when it comes to a lot like that bloke in the article seems to have trouble with then it's time to go out and buy a mirror

LOL Im FAR from being smart and wise but I'm pretty sure he was more of the problem that he'd like to admit
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Old 04-16-2017, 05:38 PM
 
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I apologise for the delay in response, This is a very good post

That's the problem with reading an article, a thread on here etc we only get one side of the story and then you end up speculating and even letting your imagination run wild trying to picture what's gone on LOL.

However obviously I've lived and been around a bit and known one or two hot ones shall we say and what I was saying in my other post is what my gut absolutely SCREAMED at me about him that he doesn't take people by face value and as an individual and instead goes in blind therefore not able to communicate and adapt as you would normally with different people hence the reason why he didn't do well and perhaps didn't know how to handle the situation.

I know and completely agree what you said above mate when it comes to meeting certain people you might not click and most probably due to them being the wrong personality as you mentioned a few traits above that ring true but when it comes to a lot like that bloke in the article seems to have trouble with then it's time to go out and buy a mirror

LOL Im FAR from being smart and wise but I'm pretty sure he was more of the problem that he'd like to admit
He most likely is a larger part of the problem. And it is not his looks (even if he looked like quasi moto).
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Old 04-16-2017, 05:39 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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He most likely is a larger part of the problem. And it is not his looks (even if he looked like quasi moto).
Yes exactly
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Old 04-16-2017, 05:42 PM
 
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Lol.

All he's saying is super models and unbelievably attractive women in NY are full of themselves and don't normally develop a personality and he was tired of not being able to have intelligent conversations, deeper relationships, etc. The opposite of superficial, he stopped being superficial. Men can't win here. The only focus is the fact that he would dare care other women "hotter" or whatever, than his fiance, who is beautiful.

I get what he is saying, and I'm sure his fiance does too. He's happy to date someone who is sexy, but not vapid and all about her looks. But of course, he is a straight white male, so of course something is offensive.
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