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IMO, lesson one should include letting the kids know that no one, at any point in history, has died from lack of sex or "blue balls".
They apparently do know. In fact, the average age of first sexual experience has never been higher since they've been keeping track, and the teen pregnancy rate has never been lower. No one knows why, but they are taking credit anyway. They will start to worry when its way too late of course. In China, after decades of persecuting couples that had more than one child, they are now openly forcing them to have more children because they are facing a population crash. I know, I know, they still have more than a billion people but that's how these things work. China looks ahead... kind of. America is hung up on young people having sex, and looking at porn, and men looking at porn, and, yes, some of them do... but the truth is, compared to what it COULD be, the truth is that not enough young people are looking at porn (or having sex) by half, and it will be a problem one day. But not today.
P.S. actually unknown thousands of young people have died from lack of sex. They didn't tell anyone that it was lack of sex why they were killing themselves way, way too early in life, because they were indoctrinated to be ashamed about it. IMO lesson one should be to let the kids know that just because mom or dad are a lonely, frustrated and unhappy single parent, putting a brave face on it, is no reason why they have to be.
P.S. actually unknown thousands of young people have died from lack of sex. They didn't tell anyone that it was lack of sex why they were killing themselves way, way too early in life, because they were indoctrinated to be ashamed about it. IMO lesson one should be to let the kids know that just because mom or dad are a lonely, frustrated and unhappy single parent, putting a brave face on it, is no reason why they have to be.
No.
No one, in the history of the world, has died from lack of sex. Like, literally, no sex = death.
Though, I'm curious, how do you know this about unknown thousands of young people and their reasons for killing themselves?
No one, in the history of the world, has died from lack of sex. Like, literally, no sex = death.
Though, I'm curious, how do you know this about unknown thousands of young people and their reasons for killing themselves?
I've been following his posts....and it seems that he thinks anyone who hasn't had sex by a certain age is deprived or disturbed in some fashion.
In other words, sex is the end all be all in his eyes. At least that's what I get from his posts.
I find that type of thinking very archaic and can cause more harm than good. I'm all for people doing what makes them happy, but to place such an importance on it that one would recommend doing it as soon as possible just isn't rational or wise.
Sex does not cure or prevent mental illness. Not everyone is the same.
They apparently do know. In fact, the average age of first sexual experience has never been higher since they've been keeping track, and the teen pregnancy rate has never been lower. No one knows why, but they are taking credit anyway. They will start to worry when its way too late of course. In China, after decades of persecuting couples that had more than one child, they are now openly forcing them to have more children because they are facing a population crash. I know, I know, they still have more than a billion people but that's how these things work. China looks ahead... kind of. America is hung up on young people having sex, and looking at porn, and men looking at porn, and, yes, some of them do... but the truth is, compared to what it COULD be, the truth is that not enough young people are looking at porn (or having sex) by half, and it will be a problem one day. But not today.
P.S. actually unknown thousands of young people have died from lack of sex. They didn't tell anyone that it was lack of sex why they were killing themselves way, way too early in life, because they were indoctrinated to be ashamed about it. IMO lesson one should be to let the kids know that just because mom or dad are a lonely, frustrated and unhappy single parent, putting a brave face on it, is no reason why they have to be.
Err... China isn't forcing people to have multiple children. China continues to have a low birthrate after relaxing their one child law. Urban people have very low birthrates. Look at South Korea and Japan. Both countries project to have their population shrink in half in 50 years. China looks to have similar issues. The same is true for Northern Europe. If it weren't for immigration, the population of the United States would start contracting.
From puberty, any male on the planet is hung up on having sex because that's their genetic programming. With porn, and affluence where they have their own bedroom, they're having sex with their right hand instead of out in the hay field with some teen girl like the good old days.
This theory that thousands of young people are dying from lack of sex is highly entertaining. Can anyone point me to any links of this new alt.facts group? I need a good laugh.
Most of what I learned was from my closest of friends whom we were intimate. No attachment.. No relationship expectations... No reason to continue if we were not interested in each other's pleasure.
It was fun... Experimenting, learning and exploring each other.
I know... I know... I have heard it already. I am a pervert and my friends are sluts. No regrets. We are still platonic friends together going on two decades who have a special place shared... So we could care less and our times together are special.
Oddly enough people like us are most in tune and open to the others gender wants and needs on a sexual level while everyone wants the near virgin to somehow magically know their way around.
And... No... I didn't get an earful a out the evils or porn from them.
Yeh... If we make sex a taboo subject, no one is going to talk about it. Just abstinence and and avoidance... This leaves it up porn in secret behind closed doors... Not exactly the best way to learn and experience.
This might be your favorite expression. I believe you have mentioned this significantly more than once or twice on this forum.
And perhaps part of the same lesson should be that having sex is essential for happiness and peace of mind for both men and women.
Nope, I can assure you it's not my favorite expression. I don't particularly enjoy having to tell people that a guy getting his rocks off is literally NOT a question of life and death.
And, no, sex is not essential for happiness for men or women.
It can be, sure, but it's not universally essential for everyone's happiness and "peace of mind".
Nope, I can assure you it's not my favorite expression. I don't particularly enjoy having to tell people that a guy getting his rocks off is literally NOT a question of life and death.
Can you provide a context for when you might say something like this? Sounds very condescending to men...
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Originally Posted by mishigas73
And, no, sex is not essential for happiness for men or women.
It can be, sure, but it's not universally essential for everyone's happiness and "peace of mind".
You seem to be saying both yes and no ... Let's just say that sexual intimacy and satisfying sex life is an important part of life for healthy women and men. I think this is essentially a fact of life.
Let's just say that sexual intimacy and satisfying sex life is an important part of life for healthy women and men. I think this is essentially a fact of life.
No, let's not say that because it implies that people who identify as asexual are unhealthy.
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