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Old 04-23-2017, 05:49 PM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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I have a profile picture on here, I am the one on the left. Maybe I'm not as good looking as I think but I've r gently got a few tattoos. I've had a few attractive woman like my photos and talk. But I mean I get a lot of woman who are like 4's and 5's in my eyes. That goes for people might see me as a 4 or 5...I doubt it but I'm just wondering why I don't get more attractive females. Is it because they can be more picky? Guess I'm just looking for some guidance or info or feedback.

 
Old 04-23-2017, 05:53 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Didn't you post a very similar topic to this last year sometime?
 
Old 04-23-2017, 05:59 PM
 
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I have a profile picture on here, I am the one on the left. Maybe I'm not as good looking as I think but I've r gently got a few tattoos. I've had a few attractive woman like my photos and talk. But I mean I get a lot of woman who are like 4's and 5's in my eyes. That goes for people might see me as a 4 or 5...I doubt it but I'm just wondering why I don't get more attractive females. Is it because they can be more picky? Guess I'm just looking for some guidance or info or feedback.
Do you get more attractive women outside of match.com? If so, just forget about match.com.
 
Old 04-23-2017, 05:59 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Update your photo.Thats the same pic from 2013.
 
Old 04-23-2017, 06:06 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I have a profile picture on here, I am the one on the left. Maybe I'm not as good looking as I think but I've r gently got a few tattoos. I've had a few attractive woman like my photos and talk. But I mean I get a lot of woman who are like 4's and 5's in my eyes. That goes for people might see me as a 4 or 5...I doubt it but I'm just wondering why I don't get more attractive females. Is it because they can be more picky? Guess I'm just looking for some guidance or info or feedback.
Initiate contact with the ones YOU find attractive and see how that goes mate

Maybe it's not your picture but they didn't like or think much of your actual profile itself and put them off perhaps?
 
Old 04-23-2017, 06:10 PM
 
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I have a profile picture on here, I am the one on the left. Maybe I'm not as good looking as I think but I've r gently got a few tattoos. I've had a few attractive woman like my photos and talk. But I mean I get a lot of woman who are like 4's and 5's in my eyes. That goes for people might see me as a 4 or 5...I doubt it but I'm just wondering why I don't get more attractive females. Is it because they can be more picky? Guess I'm just looking for some guidance or info or feedback.
You ARE attracting women you find attractive. However something is falling apart once you start talking to them. This tells me it is not your looks but the interactions you have with women. Perhaps you need to work on your communications skills and the way you present yourself. For example, it might be a good idea to stop referring to people as numbers.
 
Old 04-23-2017, 07:18 PM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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Maybe it is my profile summary? But I don't want to say to much because I just don't like that. When you take someone out you should talk about things. If I give to much then when it comes to date time it's like they already know me
 
Old 04-23-2017, 10:16 PM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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I updated my picture in my profile the uploading sucks. I tried to fix it but it just wrong file error it's from my iPhone so. That was me today at a mom and pop candy store.
 
Old 04-23-2017, 10:18 PM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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Another thing is I get this women that are extremely attractive who find me on fb, and they text and it sucks. It on the phone they are completely different.
 
Old 04-23-2017, 10:31 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Maybe it is my profile summary? But I don't want to say to much because I just don't like that. When you take someone out you should talk about things. If I give to much then when it comes to date time it's like they already know me
When I online dated, I skipped guys who had very brief profiles without much info. There just wasn't enough to go on to assess whether or not they piqued my interest if they kept a brief, generic profile, and it seemed like too much of a potential waste of time.

Ditto the, "if you want to know anything else, just ask" schpiel often accompanying a low info profile. To me, that just says, "Okay, so you don't want to put ANY effort in, here, beyond throwing a pic up."
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