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So, me and the fiance have a typical relationship. I'm the provider, and she's the pretty face at my side. She believes in equality when it comes to opportunities, but is "old fashioned" when it comes to relationships. She plans to be a stay at home mom for several years living off of me. I don't like it, but it's nearly impossible to find a girl who isn't like this. She told me that a weight limit of 130lbs is too hard. I told her that having a grown woman living off of you the state of New York, where the living expenses are high, is hard. Should I break it off? I don't want to be stuck with her if she's going to let herself go while still expecting me to take care of her. That's kind of unfair and selfish.
So, me and the fiance have a typical relationship. I'm the provider, and she's the pretty face at my side. She believes in equality when it comes to opportunities, but is "old fashioned" when it comes to relationships. She plans to be a stay at home mom for several years living off of me. I don't like it, but it's nearly impossible to find a girl who isn't like this. She told me that a weight limit of 130lbs is too hard. I told her that having a grown woman living off of you the state of New York, where the living expenses are high, is hard. Should I break it off? I don't want to be stuck with her if she's going to let herself go while still expecting me to take care of her. That's kind of unfair and selfish.
So, me and the fiance have a typical relationship. I'm the provider, and she's the pretty face at my side. She believes in equality when it comes to opportunities, but is "old fashioned" when it comes to relationships. She plans to be a stay at home mom for several years living off of me. I don't like it, but it's nearly impossible to find a girl who isn't like this. She told me that a weight limit of 130lbs is too hard. I told her that having a grown woman living off of you the state of New York, where the living expenses are high, is hard. Should I break it off? I don't want to be stuck with her if she's going to let herself go while still expecting me to take care of her. That's kind of unfair and selfish.
I told you yesterday, bro--you've been looking for love in all the wrong places. It's actually very easy to find a woman who isn't like that. Stop dating girls; upgrade to women. And don't marry someone whose life plans and goals you don't like. Pretty much a no-brainer, right? Seriously--why would you do that?
Last edited by Ruth4Truth; 04-24-2017 at 11:36 AM..
I'm not sure if that would hold up in court. I would tell her that if she puts on x amount of weight, then you are going to quit your job. And/Or you will be allowed a girlfriend on the side. See what she says.
I say break it off (although probably not for the reason you think).
I'm guessing the reason is you believe a wife should be able to get overweight and unattractive, but a man should still be held to his gender roles. Hard to find good women these days.
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