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I posted about this relationship a few days ago. I really don't know what to say other than I am not feeling what I was in the beginning.
Anyone have a surefire way of letting someone down easy?
She gets angry and wants an explanation. She keeps telling me I was using her or she was a game to me. But she also sends me texts saying she misses me and can't forget me. The break up is very new...just a few days.
I really went in with 100% sincere intentions.
Can't edit the title, I meant to say, "She is demanding an explanation for why I terminated the relationship"
WHY can't you just tell her what you've told us..a bunch of strangers?? "I really don't know what to say other than I am not feeling what I was in the beginning. "
Some people feel better, or think they will feel better (even though the actual reason may make them feel worse), if they receive a reason for why a relationship is ending. It's human nature. If you're not comfortable giving the reason, or just don't want to, that's your choice, but nobody's wrong for attempting to seek out the reason.
It is wrong and ridiculous to hound a person about the reason if they're choosing not to give one. But it's not wrong to want one. It's also not surprising when somebody wants to know a reason. It's pretty normal. It's also pretty normal to be able to accept it and move on, if somebody is just plain not going to give you one.
I posted about this relationship a few days ago. I really don't know what to say other than I am not feeling what I was in the beginning.
Anyone have a surefire way of letting someone down easy?
She gets angry and wants an explanation. She keeps telling me I was using her or she was a game to me. But she also sends me texts saying she misses me and can't forget me. The break up is very new...just a few days.
I really went in with 100% sincere intentions.
Can't edit the title, I meant to say, "She is demanding an explanation for why I terminated the relationship"
Ghost her. My guess is that is what she would have done to you.
"I just don't like you. Now leave me the f*** alone."
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