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Old 05-16-2017, 08:33 PM
 
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she knows what's going on. we had a talk, about us being uninvited from all family events and holidays, and she said she will move out. I'm a bit surprised, I thought she would do anything to make things work. maybe it has to be this way. I've told her long time ago that her negative view of my family, little nasty comments etc was going to destroy our relationship. looks like i knew what I was talking about. I'm hoping for a clean break but will prepare just in case. man, this is hard
Pffft, been there done that. She pack her bags. No contact. In a week she will be back with all her bags. Drama, drama, drama. Thank God, I am over that phase.

What you family's email is a good riddance to me. LOL. I honestly don't want to go anywhere with them. I never liked their company or anyone else's really just my husband.
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Old 05-16-2017, 09:22 PM
 
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You thought you really had something important, meaningful with her, but it turns out she's not interested in even trying to be civil, much less dealing with whatever her personality issues are. That should tell you something about her. You'd misjudged her, or missed some red flags earlier on in the relationship, or something. It may be hard for now, OP, but after it's all over and you've had time to get over it, you may find yourself relieved.
Exactly. This is a bullet, dodged.
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Old 05-17-2017, 08:14 AM
 
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she knows what's going on. we had a talk, about us being uninvited from all family events and holidays, and she said she will move out. I'm a bit surprised, I thought she would do anything to make things work. maybe it has to be this way. I've told her long time ago that her negative view of my family, little nasty comments etc was going to destroy our relationship. looks like i knew what I was talking about. I'm hoping for a clean break but will prepare just in case. man, this is hard
I'm so sorry, OP.

I know it will be hard, there will likely be tears, but in the long run it will be better for you.

I find it interesting that she so easily gave up, though. I wonder if this is some kind of game to her to see if she can guilt you into asking her to stay.
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Old 05-17-2017, 08:17 AM
 
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I'm sorry, Return of the Mack.

Hope it goes okay.
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