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When I was in my late 20's I had a friend that was in her early 30's. We had a ritual of having coffee together each morning at her house. I would walk over and she'd be getting up and we'd have coffee. I knew she got "around" but one month I went over and a different man came out of her bedroom every day for 30 days. I cannot comprehend how many men she must has slept with her life to this point (in her later 50's now).
The paranoia should STAY greater than the reality. Better to be decent and not give yourself to anyone who says "Hi" to you and looks cute than to catch ANY disease.
I agree. 'Paranoia is greater than reality' was a quote by willdufauve, not from myself.
I added the link, so he and others could face reality.
There is no such thing as safe sex. Check out the health and wellness form, there is a girl who claims to be a virgin, yet she fears she may have cought herbies. Even a condom will not protect you from that and its incurable.
When we get down to it, repressed fanatics talking about "giving yourself" and the other hokey "anti" rhetoric makes me glad I'm not a wingnut christian.
Of course there's a connection between unsafe sex and STD's, but there's also a connection between repressed sexuality and the high number of moralizing, sex negative christian ministers and conservative media personalities that get caught snortin' coke in a cheap motel room with a gay hooker or two, or tapping their foot under an airport bathroom stall.
I'll keep my balanced perspective affirming that sex is good, and normal, and natural within a context of mature and responsible decision making. A persons sex life is their own business, even for those hypocritical public figures in churches, the media, and conservative politics that push the idea that sex is dangerous and immoral for everyone else, but get themselves caught in embarrassing situations.
If you're happy having sex alone (one person) then good for you!
i think one is way too many. if you dont keep these things in check they get out of control fast.
i have noticed however as i get older the reasons not to risk get longer.
I had a disagreement with a friend recently about how many is too many. I think maybe a person's age fits into the equation but let's say that a person is 20 something and has had 12 partners. I don't think this is a whole lot. What do you think?
TAKE IT FROM SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN AROUND THE BLOCK TOO MANY TIMES EACH PERSON YOU SLEEP WITH BECOME A PART OF YOU SEE. YOU NOT ONLY REACH INTIMACY BUT THAT PERSONS SPIRIT COMES IN TO YOU SEE. YOU THEN TAKE ON THAT PERSONS SPIRIT AND SOMETIMES PERSONALITY. THEREFORE, YOU HAVE AS THE TWENTY YEAR OLD WITH TWELVE PARTENERS OR HOWEVER MANY HAS ALL THOSE SPIRITS INSIDE OF THEM AND THEY BECOME A PERSON OF MULTIPLE SPIRITS. THIS IS ALSO TRUE WITH THE EMOTIONS MIND AND SPIRIT. IT BECOMES TORMENTED AS WELL.
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There is no such thing as safe sex. Check out the health and wellness form, there is a girl who claims to be a virgin, yet she fears she may have cought herbies. Even a condom will not protect you from that and its incurable.[/QUOTE]
There Was A Lady That Used Semicid Suppositories To Keep From Getting Aids But She Ended Up With Condyloma (warts)
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