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So I have been spending a lot of time with the guy from my previous post, tutoring him but also, since the weather's been nicer, we've been spending quite a lot of time outside. He suggested a few times to go for coffee instead of tutoring, we did, we only spoke English, talked for hours, had dinner (which he bought). We started talking about our love lives, and he is still very mysterious, but he does talk about having kids. He asked me if i were ready for a relationship (I had had a bad break up a while ago) and called me hermosa (in Spanish meaning beautiful). These were all isolated incidents so I'm not sure they come to anything. The other night we walked for hours and every time we would get close to my place, he would just suggest to go for another round. He is not making any moves, but has implied he would like to go on another trip with me (we went on a road trip once). He also said he'd like to play racquet ball (I have mentioned this a few times in the past - coincidence?) Clearly he doesn't have a lot of experience but every time I try to get more out of him he shuts down and asks me not to ask him. He told me I deserve the best and he has a feeling everything in my life will fall into place soon. I think he is a super sweet guy but I'm not sure if I am being majorly friend zoned or there is a possibility for something more. Thank you in advance.
So I have been spending a lot of time with the guy from my previous post, tutoring him but also, since the weather's been nicer, we've been spending quite a lot of time outside. He suggested a few times to go for coffee instead of tutoring, we did, we only spoke English, talked for hours, had dinner (which he bought). We started talking about our love lives, and he is still very mysterious, but he does talk about having kids. He asked me if i were ready for a relationship (I had had a bad break up a while ago) and called me hermosa (in Spanish meaning beautiful). These were all isolated incidents so I'm not sure they come to anything. The other night we walked for hours and every time we would get close to my place, he would just suggest to go for another round. He is not making any moves, but has implied he would like to go on another trip with me (we went on a road trip once). He also said he'd like to play racquet ball (I have mentioned this a few times in the past - coincidence?) Clearly he doesn't have a lot of experience but every time I try to get more out of him he shuts down and asks me not to ask him. He told me I deserve the best and he has a feeling everything in my life will fall into place soon. I think he is a super sweet guy but I'm not sure if I am being majorly friend zoned or there is a possibility for something more. Thank you in advance.
It sounds like he enjoys spending time with you as a friend. He's probably afraid if he admits that's all he feels towards you, then you'll move on and he'll lose the close friendship that he has with you right now.
This is getting annoying. You should just straight up tell him you are getting mixed signals and don't know if you two are just friends or if he wants something more.
These are the questions you need honest answers to before you consider a relationship of any kind.
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