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I find the less one knows, the more boring it is. The fun part is to keep learning
A lady friend of mine said she doesn't feel like she has to do anything, cause a guy just wants a place to stick it. Not surprisingly, she doesn't care about sex. My heart fell a little when I heard this.
That's sad because not all guys are like that.
Knees
yeah, I definitely get those jello knees
Last edited by bellakin123; 06-05-2017 at 01:40 PM..
I agree with this. Another common trait I've noticed is a lot of these guys don't seem to be able to pick up on non-verbal cues. I have always been able to tell whether someone is into me or not just by the body language, facial expressions, etc. I would have never dreamed of asking if things are ok or what she thought of me or whatever.
This, I believe, is the most common downfalls when reading so many posts here. The usual statistic on this is that 93% of communication is non-verbal.
Think about that a minute. The way you say things, your facial expression, tone, body language carries over 90% of the weight of a conversation versus what you're actually saying. So people who are poor with social cues and are communication are not going to have great success until they become more at ease and adept at social interactions.
I know a few guys with this mentality. They seem to think that a woman is a keypad they have to punch a specific code into, in order to get the treasures that lie inside. Whether it be sexually, emotionally, or both. I've personally dealt with someone like this in the past. There's so much entitlement. I had a conversation the other night with a friend that related to this. He was talking about how fed up he was and how every time he gets a girl, things end. He doesn't seem to understand that a lot of relationships run their course and end at some point.
He emphasized how much he would do for them and how they are never satisfied. I don't think he really sees women as individuals, he ignores a lot of red flags, and is just in love with the idea of love. As far as I know, he's only been heavily involved with 2 or 3 women. I think too many people base their self worth on whether or not someone wants to be with them or spend time with them. I understand most people want companionship but they shouldn't make themselves unhappy trying to get it.
Yep, I'm guilty of this for sure. I'm not a doormat, but I am a gentleman and I like doing things for the woman I'm dating. Dating for me is a means to an end, that end being marriage. Dating is not fun unless there are strong feelings on both sides. The very beginning (courting) and trying to meet women in general just isn't enjoyable. Don't get me wrong, I love a great date, but the anxiety that goes along with initial dates with a woman who I'm not sure is into me is just stressful. Also, I can be alone, but humans aren't meant to be alone indefinitely.
Also, I can be alone, but humans aren't meant to be alone indefinitely.
People are meant for whichever way they choose to live their lives.
IMO.
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