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Old 06-11-2017, 10:25 AM
 
Location: Deep Dirty South
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As others have said, attitude counts for so much. But yours seems to be predominantly self-defeatist.
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Old 06-11-2017, 10:56 AM
 
Location: Göle, Turkey
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If you quit acting like a sally, there's probably at least a fat chick in your future.

Fat chicks are usually great in bed too.......your loss
They are looking for more attractive guys. I am too unattractive for them. I am the kind of guy a girl would never want. Girls are valuable because of something they got.

If I was a girl, I would be so conceited. It must feel great to be a girl. The valuable gender. Being a man sucks.
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Old 06-11-2017, 02:09 PM
 
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They are looking for more attractive guys. I am too unattractive for them. I am the kind of guy a girl would never want. Girls are valuable because of something they got.

If I was a girl, I would be so conceited. It must feel great to be a girl. The valuable gender. Being a man sucks.

So go cry yourself to sleep.

You must come off as the creepiest, eye contact avoiding, sad sack ever.

And don't chase after plain Jane women either, they haven't done anything to deserve your depressing bullsh*t.
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Old 06-11-2017, 02:15 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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So go cry yourself to sleep.

You must come off as the creepiest, eye contact avoiding, sad sack ever.

And don't chase after plain Jane women either, they haven't done anything to deserve your depressing bullsh*t.
Post of the week!
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Old 06-11-2017, 03:29 PM
 
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They are looking for more attractive guys. I am too unattractive for them. I am the kind of guy a girl would never want. Girls are valuable because of something they got.

If I was a girl, I would be so conceited. It must feel great to be a girl. The valuable gender. Being a man sucks.
I used to feel the same way that you do. I'm a guy who's been called ugly more times than I can count and my self-esteem still is pretty low. When I was a kid, people used to bully me badly for being ugly. I've had a girlfriend though and I'm talking to a few girls now, I even went on a date with a girl a few weeks ago. If you would've asked me a few years ago, I would've never thought that I could do that. Those girls I'm talking about were all good looking girls as well. I used to feel resentful about women and read things online that would make me feel that way, but you have to believe in yourself and stay away from that stuff. There are guys out there who are worse off looking than you who have girlfriends. If you constantly tell yourself that you'll never date, it'll never happen. You have to better yourself whether it be through style or something like that to make yourself appealing. You're the only one who can make that choice. You may never be able to be a ladies man but there are billions of girls out there and it's ridiculous to think that there isn't at least one who would date you.
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Old 06-11-2017, 04:11 PM
 
Location: Prescott Arizona
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They are looking for more attractive guys. I am too unattractive for them. I am the kind of guy a girl would never want. Girls are valuable because of something they got.

If I was a girl, I would be so conceited. It must feel great to be a girl. The valuable gender. Being a man sucks.
You sound pathetic bro

Go buy a hooker. It will do wonders for your confidence. Chicks aren't free. You'll pay for it one way or another.

No normal chick is going to treat a guy like you with any respect until you start projecting an ounce of confidence. Shoving some womans head into your lap that's WAY out of your league is going to make a guy like you feel alpha for the first time in your life. Find out where the hookers are in your town, pick one up, and find secluded place to park. Throw her $100 and let her go bobbing for apples.

My work is done here.
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Old 06-11-2017, 05:44 PM
 
Location: Göle, Turkey
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You sound pathetic bro

Go buy a hooker. It will do wonders for your confidence. Chicks aren't free. You'll pay for it one way or another.

No normal chick is going to treat a guy like you with any respect until you start projecting an ounce of confidence. Shoving some womans head into your lap that's WAY out of your league is going to make a guy like you feel alpha for the first time in your life. Find out where the hookers are in your town, pick one up, and find secluded place to park. Throw her $100 and let her go bobbing for apples.

My work is done here.
It ain't something I haven't been doin but it is not worth the money. A lot of money for just 5 minutes. I waste my money doing it.

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Old 06-11-2017, 06:05 PM
 
Location: Sunshine Coast, QLD
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Are we all being trolled here? Cmon man!! No way can it be THAT bad!!
In the event you are being serious, I strongly suggest taking some of the self-help advice given here. Exercise, do what makes YOU feel good. Gotta try to get your confidence up a bit.
Idk your finances, but if you can, go to America if possible. Millions of women there, you are bound to find ONE that you click with. Be a friend, you'll make friends. Treat her the way YOU would like to be treated. Don't look for perfection- no one person, nor one collective group of people are going to be perfect.
But I can tell that American women are about as close to perfection as you're going to find; they aren't perfect, of course, but just know that Any imperfections are not THEIR fault, but rather, the fault of men's imperfections! Don't believe me? Just ask them! Your situation is in your control. Only YOU can change your life; take charge of your happiness!! What have you got to lose??
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Old 06-11-2017, 06:13 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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It ain't something I haven't been doin but it is not worth the money. A lot of money for just 5 minutes. I waste my money doing it.
5 mins? c'mon man you can do better that that. If I were to pay for it, best bet Ill be getting 5k worth for $100 5 mins no way Im letting a hooker make money that easy, LOl

Youre not wasting money, you're gaining invaluable confidence.
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Old 06-11-2017, 06:24 PM
 
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5 minutes? What?
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