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I met a guy, we went out for a month(maybe 7 dates), the last two times we made out very very hot and he said he really wanted me. But I said I want our first time on a weekend so we can sleep over and have a casual and relaxing next morning.
But he just texted me that he didn't know how many nights like that he can take anymore. He said it was too painful for him.
What does that mean? Does that mean he doesn't want to see me again if I don't have sex with him?
Should I have sex with him? If i do, I feel like I comprise my rule to keep a man, which makes me sad but I do enjoy spending time with him and I am never really object to have sex with him.
Does that mean he actually just looks into sex with me, nothing else? Not really like me or something?
We have no way of knowing, dear. This is the risk of being with someone.
You have to decide what YOUR standards are and talk to him about it. If he really likes you and respects your standards he will hang around. If he "only wants sex," he'll quit calling.
You've explained to him very clearly your preference/terms, and it sounds to me like he doesn't want to do a weekend sleepover. He wants what he wants, and he doesn't care about what you want. He is trying to make you feel guilty about your terms by playing the "it's too painful" card. He doesn't sound like a gentleman to me, and I predict that he'll be as selfish in bed as he is out of bed.
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