Stood Up. Want to stand down.

[The Big Lebowski Dude]

Originally Posted by NewYorker11356

It seems even when you were doing traditional dating, you still had a casual dating mindset.

That's exactly correct, and I'm not apologizing for this at all. For years, I've always been 100% honest with woman that I'm only interested in sex, not a relationship(s). I'm definitely not misrepresenting myself.

[Dport7674]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

I agree, if it happens fine, otherwise the formula approach so many talk about seems a little odd to me.

If she's not giving me 'the look' by the third date I'm wondering if she thinks I'm just a pal.