Do you think its disrespectful? (woman, older, family, separate)

[ShanesG]

Originally Posted by Rance

ShanesG you could at least show her some respect and not do it on her computer or while she's right there with you. Especially making comments such as you suggested about other guys ex gf's. Not very nice.

Im sorry, i didn't clarify that enough. I never comment on any girls in front of her or on her comp. Most of the time if i do go on it at her house, itswhile shes doing her hair, in the shower, watching one of her shows. I admited i do get caught up at times and stay on the forum longer than she would like, but i don't realize it at the time(most of the time). But I am no longer gonna be on it at her house unless its likean event time or something to that sort...

[Huckleberry3911948]

i think you got a different set of standards than him.
its not a "guy" thing, its a standards thing.
on this particular parachute jump, the the longer you wait, the lower you will
be to the ground.

[Rance]

Originally Posted by ShanesG

Im sorry, i didn't clarify that enough. I never comment on any girls in front of her or on her comp. Most of the time if i do go on it at her house, itswhile shes doing her hair, in the shower, watching one of her shows. I admited i do get caught up at times and stay on the forum longer than she would like, but i don't realize it at the time(most of the time). But I am no longer gonna be on it at her house unless its likean event time or something to that sort...

Ok...let this be a lesson to you. Now kiss and make up!

[Rhett_Butler]

Originally Posted by ShanesG

Im sorry, i didn't clarify that enough. I never comment on any girls in front of her or on her comp. Most of the time if i do go on it at her house, itswhile shes doing her hair, in the shower, watching one of her shows. I admited i do get caught up at times and stay on the forum longer than she would like, but i don't realize it at the time(most of the time). But I am no longer gonna be on it at her house unless its likean event time or something to that sort...

Okay cool... So while we got you here, what's THIS about???

Originally Posted by blondesexlove

And then the other day, he was on the forum, actually looking at car stuff for a change, and he scrolled through the page too fast for me to keep up. There was some kind of defination that I wanted to know and when I asked him to go back he got soo mad at me. He told me "this is his website."

Obviously there's two sides to the story. So now I get to hear your take on this.

[Donna7]

Originally Posted by blondesexlove

I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 8 months now and sometimes he does things that really hurt me, even though I've told him over and over again that it does.

He joined a forum for cars a while back and just recently I went onto the website to see what it was all about. I went into some off topic forums and saw a bunch of posts of naked chicks. He posted comments on them saying how sexy they were and using those "drooling" smily faces. Anyways I have told him time and time again that it hurts me, but he always says it just fun and games. So after I confronted him about it, I see that he is still on forums where guys post naked pictures of there ex's and he was asking the guys on there to send more pics of the girls. And hes been going on websites and voting on "which chick is hottest" and stuff like that.

I just dont know if I am being overly sensitive, or if anyone agrees that it is slighly disrespectful... especially because I have told him time and time again that it bothers me. What does everyone else think?

Do you need permission to drop this oaf? Drop him and save yourself a world of hurt in the future. Extricate yourself from him now and don't look back. There's nothing left to say.

[Roselvr]

Originally Posted by ShanesG

For the comments I have made, that i am guilty for and admit i do make comments about pictures of girls (NOT ALL NUDE BTW, ACCUALLY VERY FEW ARE). But, nothing more than-Shes Hot, or Shes really cute, damn she has a huge rack etc. Never do i make comments saying-yeah i'd bend her over or i'd hit that doggy style, or anything of that sort. I'm not "trying to be one of the boys" or "be cool" or w/e you may think. You scroll through threads, look at them, make comments go to the next do the same, so on and so forth, and don't even remember what you said 2 comments ago. I'm not going through the threads looking for nude pics to comment on. If im looking through threads, and see a good looking girl, i will say "shes good looking" If i wanted to look at chicks all day, why would i be on a car forum "looking" for them??lol

Nice name, did your mom used to watch Days of Our Lives?

Anyway, saying things like what you said you say, you should watch that too.. It's possible she doesn't mind you saying it, but some of the times you say it at a wrong time and it bothers her. I have days when I'm not feeling attractive & if my man was checking out girls boobs etc, saying nice rack or how cute she was, I'd feel like "hmm, I don't feel well today and he's not saying something nice to me, but instead noticing this chick"

Originally Posted by BeerNPoker

Okay cool... So while we got you here, what's THIS about???

The 1st thought that came to my mind was something like milf, but she probably knows that one.

[MaggieZ]

Well ShanesG, I think there's a problem when she feels she has to ask for a stranger's advice rather than talk to you about the problem. She's talked to you and got nowhere, she says...there's a problem in your communication or you guys are just not compatible, love may have nothing to do with it. Read her original post one more time and I still say all that posting ex's pics is wrong and how can you stand to deal with people who do post those pics and whom you say you don't agree with online then? You say you're not like that, right? I'm just basing what I say on what I've read.

[another_hot-day]

If he had nothing to hide he wouldn't care if you were lookin at the site.

[MaggieZ]

Originally Posted by another_hot-day

If he had nothing to hide he wouldn't care if you were lookin at the site.

I agree with that.

[ShanesG]

Originally Posted by another_hot-day

If he had nothing to hide he wouldn't care if you were lookin at the site.

I don't care and have nothing to hide, that why she has all my passwords.

Originally Posted by Roselvr

Nice name, did your mom used to watch Days of Our Lives?

The 1st thought that came to my mind was something like milf, but she probably knows that one.

I think i was just in a bad mood that night, and i was already reading down and didn't scroll back up till i was done reading , i dont even remember what the word was, i don't think i even knew what the word mean't that was typed...