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Old 07-26-2017, 09:13 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Who knows. I'm not into backup texting or texting at all really so I hope he is not expecting much in the way of replies. If you want to talk to me ask me out.

popcorn popping!


So you are still open to him asking you out?
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Old 07-26-2017, 11:41 AM
 
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Not particularly but I'm curious now to see what little game he is playing. I don't understand why someone would waste their time like that.
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Old 07-26-2017, 11:44 AM
 
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Not particularly but I'm curious now to see what little game he is playing. I don't understand why someone would waste their time like that.

Really? You were not a priority to him, he had something better to do, now is a slow time without any better prospects so now he is contacting you.
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Old 07-26-2017, 02:09 PM
 
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I didn't say I would go. I'm curious now long he will keep him the pointless texting though..*Pops popcorn.
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Old 07-28-2017, 09:12 AM
 
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Girl, please.
Just because you are a straighforward type who thinks wishy/washy mixed sig behavior is so stupid (I do TOO) doesn't mean others view it that way!

Please take this tidbit of advice from an old bag who used to not be an old bag and was pretty popular with the fellas:
when a guy is really into you, he DOESN'T DO this. Whether he wants LTR or a fast hookup if INTO you, this does not happen. And just because he did this to you it does NOT mean he doesn't want a LTR as his proifle states; why you assume that I don't understand.

He likely wants a LTR IF he meets a gal who blows him away. You prob did not have that impact.

What he is "getting out of it" varies; sometimes guys like to have a backup, that is, a gal strung along in case the gal they really like bails out/is stringing THEM along and ther ego needs the boost.

Wishy washy behavior = wishy washy attraction.

He thinks you're OK enough to maybe hook up with when /if the mood hits him or nothing better is available but I can promise you he is not so into you he called his pals and was all like I met the HOTTEST girl the other day.
He is not so into you he is posting about it on a forum. Gurantee it.

Guys are not subtle. When they're into you, they act like fools, call and schedule and call again, and much like barnacles, you cannot pry them loose.
That. ^^ Exactly that.
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Old 07-28-2017, 09:26 AM
 
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Just to clear this up even more, the women I have been interested in likely had no clue for weeks or months. I was subtle, probably appeared aloof, and generally defied the stereotypes posted here about how interested men behave. Now chances are that any given man won't behave like I did, but men are.........drum roll........individuals who handle things in a variety of ways. I think I've heard or read a term once or twice in a similar context. What was it? Oh yeah. We are not a hive mind.
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Old 07-28-2017, 11:35 PM
 
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I didn't say I would go. I'm curious now long he will keep him the pointless texting though..*Pops popcorn.
You are obsessed with him.

I have seen this so many times... girl spends weeks taking smack about a guy only to end up in a serious relationship with him.
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Old 07-29-2017, 07:50 AM
 
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You are obsessed with him.

I have seen this so many times... girl spends weeks taking smack about a guy only to end up in a serious relationship with him.
Hahaha....nope. Haven't even thought about him. I have some other dates set up, some of them second ones. I dont have time for this guy and have moved on. I just find it a bit amusing.
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