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Old 07-16-2017, 09:45 AM
 
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Hello, I posted in here before about how a trusted tryst gave me Trichomonias. It was the worse experience of my life. I am now in the process of healing. During my process, I am practicing celibacy and I also joined a gym. At the gym, a guy asked for my number and we were texting all day until I told him that I once contracted a sti. He was surprised and then just stop texting. I feel so horrible and think that I shouldn't date anymore and focus on me. I understand it is cured but there is still a stigma. My friendtold me that he is not understanding and at least I was being honest. She also told me that I should have waited until the right time.

What should i do if another guy takes interest in me? Should I tell or not. I am all about honesty
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Old 07-16-2017, 09:47 AM
Status: "I don't understand. But I don't care, so it works out." (set 5 days ago)
 
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If you are truly cured (and your OB confirms this to you) it's no one's business.

If you once had pneumonia would you tell that to a guy interested in you? Once had mono? Bladder infection?

Why are you "in the process" of healing?

If trich is "the worst experience of your life", I'd say you have a lot to be grateful for!
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Old 07-16-2017, 09:51 AM
 
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Hello, I posted in here before about how a trusted tryst gave me Trichomonias. It was the worse experience of my life. I am now in the process of healing. During my process, I am practicing celibacy and I also joined a gym. At the gym, a guy asked for my number and we were texting all day until I told him that I once contracted a sti. He was surprised and then just stop texting. I feel so horrible and think that I shouldn't date anymore and focus on me. I understand it is cured but there is still a stigma. My friendtold me that he is not understanding and at least I was being honest. She also told me that I should have waited until the right time.

What should i do if another guy takes interest in me? Should I tell or not. I am all about honesty
Really? Is that why you voluntarily had sex with a man who was *in your words taken*?


Tell or don't tell and you should be able to make this choice without the opinions of random strangers on a public forum.
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Old 07-16-2017, 09:53 AM
 
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Oh dear, not this again. You already know that you can't have sex without having a paranoid meltdown, so why are you trying to date?
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Old 07-16-2017, 10:11 AM
 
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Oh dear, not this again. You already know that you can't have sex without having a paranoid meltdown, so why are you trying to date?
Just to see what else is out there. I've been seeking counseling and it is helping out a lot
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Old 07-16-2017, 10:12 AM
 
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Really? Is that why you voluntarily had sex with a man who was *in your words taken*?


Tell or don't tell and you should be able to make this choice without the opinions of random strangers on a public forum.
I was honest about that too
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Old 07-16-2017, 10:20 AM
 
Location: Dallas Texas
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Your screen nane is fitting!
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Old 07-16-2017, 10:20 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Did you change your username mid-post??
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Old 07-16-2017, 10:25 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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What should i do if another guy takes interest in me?
What if you learn to be more picky chosing your partners?
Just because some guy takes interest in you doesn't mean you have to have one night stand with him. Try to learn how to be more selective with your guys, make own decisions who YOU want to meet and sleep with, AFTER knowing them more than few hours or days, and the possibility of contracting another STD will get much lower.
Learn how to control your itch.
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Old 07-16-2017, 11:06 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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These STD threads always makes me cringe.
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