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Old 07-22-2017, 12:49 AM
 
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listen hear young man, socialize, just say hi. If you go around not expecting to get some, you will probably make some friends that could lead to a relationship. You will find that lady that is crazy for you, so learn a little body language.

Build your bank, take your job serious, exercise and take care of your appearance . Fancy clothes and a fancy car does not draw the right ladies in your life. A little confidence, a healthy appearance , and a good mood does. Try not to bring so much pressure on yourself. You are 24 years of age, overcome your fears.

out of every 7 attempts, at least one will give you a shot.

Some trick you can try,

-when out dancing, ask for a dance, say no strings attached, I dance for fun.

-when clothes shopping, ask a random single lady, (non employee)what does she think "for a womens opinion" strictly small talk. I have gone into a Sephoras, browsing mens fragrance, just to try my luck.

-If you lock eyes with someone, say hello or smile. bus stop train station, starbucks or whatever.

-you can meet someone new at lunch, to/from work, at the Walgreens, any where.


*Body language will tell you how to proceed.*

blushing, hiding smiles, interested goggle eyes, some women cant hide emotions. the more you socialize, by just saying good morning, starting small talk, the more you figure out the dating game.

If its a sex thing too, just pay for it once, to get it out you system. But never go back.
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Old 07-22-2017, 10:55 AM
 
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listen hear young man, socialize, just say hi. If you go around not expecting to get some, you will probably make some friends that could lead to a relationship. You will find that lady that is crazy for you, so learn a little body language.

Build your bank, take your job serious, exercise and take care of your appearance . Fancy clothes and a fancy car does not draw the right ladies in your life. A little confidence, a healthy appearance , and a good mood does. Try not to bring so much pressure on yourself. You are 24 years of age, overcome your fears.

out of every 7 attempts, at least one will give you a shot.

Some trick you can try,

-when out dancing, ask for a dance, say no strings attached, I dance for fun.

-when clothes shopping, ask a random single lady, (non employee)what does she think "for a womens opinion" strictly small talk. I have gone into a Sephoras, browsing mens fragrance, just to try my luck.

-If you lock eyes with someone, say hello or smile. bus stop train station, starbucks or whatever.

-you can meet someone new at lunch, to/from work, at the Walgreens, any where.


*Body language will tell you how to proceed.*

blushing, hiding smiles, interested goggle eyes, some women cant hide emotions. the more you socialize, by just saying good morning, starting small talk, the more you figure out the dating game.

If its a sex thing too, just pay for it once, to get it out you system. But never go back.
Yeah. All of this means nothing when you find out OP is a serious sociopath who struggles with his sexuality. Pay him no mind.
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Old 07-25-2017, 08:12 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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All the bashing and accusations are bad. This thread serves the many other twenty-something men out there who crave to just get a foot in the door but of coarse, are not granted the opportunity.
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Old 07-25-2017, 08:19 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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All the bashing and accusations are bad. This thread serves the many other twenty-something men out there who crave to just get a foot in the door but of coarse, are not granted the opportunity.


So you're apologizing?
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Old 07-25-2017, 08:46 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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All the bashing and accusations are bad. This thread serves the many other twenty-something men out there who crave to just get a foot in the door but of coarse, are not granted the opportunity.
Dude, the "secret" for you (and many other men like you) is to first like women, more importantly like yourselves.

I implore you to go get help.
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Old 07-25-2017, 10:26 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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OP, if you are wondering why you are having trouble attracting women, and have lost all your friends, it may be because of this:

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Lately I've been losing interest in females, their contrasting organs now kind of gross me out and I am not feeling much attraction towards them..
Men look much clean & crisp to me.. I seriously am disgusted by same gender intercoarse, so I'm obviously not homosexual..
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-- Also all these sexual media on tv that's portraying females makes me feel embarrassed and nervous around people, so that also is part of the situation of my dislike towards females..

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Why would I go to jail? If I don't like females? Is it illegal, I don't think so.. I have very good reason for my situation.. And I'm sure I'm not the only person with this kind of a problem..

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The only women I don't hate is my mother..

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Actually it's more that I find women to be oppressive, I just have never met a women/girl etc which I've liked..And I am not really a proud supporter of sexual intercoarse lol

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What the point of a wife if she can cheat without any consequences what so ever..
This is why I would be a proud advocate of Sharia Law


Why wasn't this thread closed after this^^?


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Old 07-25-2017, 04:42 PM
 
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Your not being as weird as they are making you out to be, you sound like a virgin. Try finding a church with a single's ministry.
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Old 07-25-2017, 09:20 PM
 
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Your not being as weird as they are making you out to be, you sound like a virgin. Try finding a church with a single's ministry.
Hahahahahahaha

If he isn't good looking and White he will be wasting his time. It's not as if Christian girls aren't highly sought out and competition isn't fierce. You have to be Chad the former football captain to really hope to get anywhere there. It definitely is even harder there than a nightclub.

He is weird. And weirdness isn't tolerated in church culture. He will be even more frustrated.

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Old 07-29-2017, 09:28 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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Do girls show signs of interest? If answer is yes, then either no girls has ever relayed their interest to myself or I'm not good at picking up on the signs.

Appearance wise - I've been told that I'm a Charlie Sheen (young) lookalike, furthermore, have been given the handsome tag on numerous occasions.

But all that means nothing of coarse because I'm still on ZERO points.
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Old 07-29-2017, 09:32 AM
 
Location: Morrison, CO
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Become the best, most interesting person you can be. Get fit, eat healthily, and like others said, get involved in activities. They will find you.
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