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I think you're slipping a bit into denial here. I've seen it a millions times, every time someone lays out some information that the OP doesn't really want to hear then the defending and back tracking comes in.
You really can stay with the guy or not and I don't mean this harshly I and other don't have a dog in the fight. If you're happy with the situation you're in, which I doubt because of thread creation than that is fine. It just feels like you're not getting treated as well as you could be. The references to other women more than you're comfortable with and the other things your mentioned. I think he's keeping you on the backburner, truth be told.
I hope I'm wrong and I wish the best for you. It give me much more pleasure to hear good stories than bad ones. Hopefully your story is a good one....
no im not in denial lol. I just don't understand his behaviour. truthfully if it was me and I'm not into a person, it's happened before I don't engage with that person at all regardless if they initiate, if they want to meet up I'd say im busy all thr time I wouldn't meet the person even once. but obviously he still sees me.
I think you're slipping a bit into denial here. I've seen it a millions times, every time someone lays out some information that the OP doesn't really want to hear then the defending and back tracking comes in.
You really can stay with the guy or not and I don't mean this harshly I and other don't have a dog in the fight. If you're happy with the situation you're in, which I doubt because of thread creation than that is fine. It just feels like you're not getting treated as well as you could be. The references to other women more than you're comfortable with and the other things your mentioned. I think he's keeping you on the backburner, truth be told.
I hope I'm wrong and I wish the best for you. It give me much more pleasure to hear good stories than bad ones. Hopefully your story is a good one....
and again this is just me but even I mention other guys to him..not.quite the same way as him but I'll tell him if I get interest.from other guys etc... just.to see his reaction and usually what he says is give me some better competition than that..he.will basically insult every single guy I mention an say thyre nothing and to find someone better he can compete with
Oh I don't know, as soon as he said if you dressed better he'd act better, or he'll find someone to help you, maybe you should've told him to GTFO. It doesn't matter if he acts like he's kidding, find a guy who says nice things to you!
Oh I don't know, as soon as he said if you dressed better he'd act better, or he'll find someone to help you, maybe you should've told him to GTFO. It doesn't matter if he acts like he's kidding, find a guy who says nice things to you!
yea you're right I don't kno whats wrong with.with.him but he has said it before. he keeps mentioning this one.specific girl aswell and how great she dresses and how I need her help it really annoys me as I don't even lik the.girl.
even guys i barely known two seconds say nicer.. things to me than he does. for example one guy I met randomly within thr day I met him he said I was.beautiful...something iv never heard the other one say. its.iso weird. yet he expects me.to compliment.him 24/7. hl be lik what so you think of my.body ..my photo. totally.totally self obsessed. n then I think I'm gettin tired.from giving all of that to him bt gettin nothing back lik.wtf
Don't buy the half joking b.s. That was his passive aggressive cowardly way to let you know how he truly feels. He is not that physically attracted to you.
You absolutely did the right thing by telling that jerk to get lost. If he cared about losing you, he would of been crying, begging, that he was sorry.
His actions and words of "good luck" show how much he values you.
he comes out with if only these women would go for me but unfortunately i dont have evrything to offer them
Right there he's telling you he thinks you're the best he can get even though you're not good enough.
You happy knowing he's just keeping you around until somebody better comes along?
Don't buy the half joking b.s. That was his passive aggressive cowardly way to let you know how he truly feels. He is not that physically attracted to you.
You absolutely did the right thing by telling that jerk to get lost. If he cared about losing you, he would of been crying, begging, that he was sorry.
His actions and words of "good luck" show how much he values you.
he's said it before a few times, I usually take it as the clothes I wear are not to his taste not that he doesn't like my face..whereas clothes is something that can b changed ..I dunno n also when I'm with him even when I'm not doing anything he gets physically aroused
n im just like hiw the hell did tht happen
thr first time I got angry with him he did try to make the situation better and say let's go away but this time i thjnk thr pride kicked in. but either way I found it rude him saying I should get clothes advice from that other girl for that alone it's ok what I did so you're right there
Right there he's telling you he thinks you're the best he can get even though you're not good enough.
You happy knowing he's just keeping you around until somebody better comes along?
that day earlier on we were talking about my ex and something the ex did and he kept looking at me saying you look really upset and sad even though that wasn't thr case it wss in his head lol. I thought maybe it was something to do with that I dunno
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It give me much more pleasure to hear good stories than bad ones. Hopefully your story is a good one....
