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Not asking for sympathy. The question was "who does this type of thing?" Ok, guys have done it....well women have too.
HC was right ... horny people do it. I would amend it by saying that horny people with little regard for other people's feelings and "how things look" do it.
But you really weren't transparent in your OP, dude. She's your ex that you're sleeping with so ... I guess a FWB, but now you're pissed that she came back for more just before she heads out of town on a boyfriend/girlfriend-type trip with ANOTHER ex.
Yikes ... this woman has problems with boundaries LOLOL Also known as "a user."
HC was right ... horny people do it. I would amend it by saying that horny people with little regard for other people's feelings and "how things look" do it.
But you really weren't transparent in your OP, dude. She's your ex that you're sleeping with so ... I guess a FWB, but now you're pissed that she came back for more just before she heads out of town on a boyfriend/girlfriend-type trip with ANOTHER ex.
Yikes ... this woman has problems with boundaries LOLOL Also known as "a user."
I should say I'm pissed and disappointed. I thought she was better than that.
Yes, has been a FWB off and on. You are right, she is a user.
I should say I'm pissed and disappointed. I thought she was better than that.
Yes, has been a FWB off and on. You are right, she is a user.
What the hell?
You can have friends with benefits but she can't have friends with benefits?
SHE has to be concerned with appearances, and is labeled as a horny user person, as if there's something wrong and dirty with her when she does the same thing as you?
But you can go and "tap that twice last weekend" without worrying about "who does this"?
I see a little uneasiness all around here with the role reversal. FWB means FWB for both people, if you want a commitment, say so!
Maybe that's why she came over, she told you what was going on, you had your chance to speak up, she's not keeping any secrets.
Seems there are still residual feelings on your side, none on hers. If you can't handle that she's doing her own thing and messing around with you at the same time, cut it off.
You're need to stop trying to justify your role here.
You had consensual sex. Now that we know all the facts (we do, right??) it's easy to see that you feel misled ... I think ... and neither of you is being particularly open about your situation.
No, but you had sex with her just a week prior. Which was a week prior to her departure on the same trip, which was probably already planned and on the calendar a week ago. I don't see why you're having an issue with this now, but not a week ago.
And why does she need to meet the family of an ex she broke up with 5 years ago? That's strange.
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