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Old 08-27-2017, 04:25 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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I appreciate the feedback. Maybe I'm using the wrong metrics. I also don't want sex necessarily. I joked around with a friend of mine and said I'd take the 40 Year Old Virgin route and go 15 - 20 dates with her without having sex LOL.

I should just chill out though. I am anxious as a person generally and like feedback. It could be a bit of only child syndrome on my end too

I do like her and I'd drop talking to other women but I just want to see a bit more from her. I will wait and be patient though and also handle personal things on my end (father's death, job search)! Thank you.
Lol, I feel you. I sort of tend to be the same way in regards to being anxious and wanting feedback, but I do a good job of not really showing it.
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Old 08-27-2017, 06:51 PM
 
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Just take it slow... sure you can have sex whenever, but when it's over, it's over. Enjoy her company.
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Old 08-27-2017, 07:13 PM
 
Location: Pa
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She wants a man with a slow hand.
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Old 08-27-2017, 08:09 PM
 
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I don't see where anything is up with her, you've only known her a month. She might want bf/gf status before other things start happening. This is her right. High quality women don't need to put out to get attention. You play by her rulebook, or she finds a guy that will.
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Old 08-27-2017, 08:20 PM
 
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"High quality women don't need to put out" ...as if no woman really enjoys it, so they just all hold off until they really have to.
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Old 08-27-2017, 08:31 PM
 
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She wants a man with a slow hand.
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I don't see where anything is up with her, you've only known her a month. She might want bf/gf status before other things start happening. This is her right. High quality women don't need to put out to get attention. You play by her rulebook, or she finds a guy that will.
Fair enough guys
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Old 08-27-2017, 09:32 PM
 
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I don't see where anything is up with her, you've only known her a month. She might want bf/gf status before other things start happening. This is her right. High quality women don't need to put out to get attention. You play by her rulebook, or she finds a guy that will.
/\/\/\/\/\ This 100%!
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Old 08-27-2017, 09:36 PM
 
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High quality women don't need to put out to get attention. You play by her rulebook, or she finds a guy that will.
or maybe the guy moves on and finds someone else that plays by his rulebook.

it's never..nor should it be one sided.
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Old 08-27-2017, 09:52 PM
 
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or maybe the guy moves on and finds someone else that plays by his rulebook.

it's never..nor should it be one sided.
Thank you, there are no rules. People do whatever they're comfortable with. The only negative is when people start playing games.
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Old 08-27-2017, 09:57 PM
 
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Thank you, there are no rules. People do whatever they're comfortable with. The only negative is when people start playing games.
I don't get the butthurt I'm sensing here over terminology, if she wants bf/gf first that's obviously a rule she made, and pretty normal really. I'm not saying that's it, he'd have to ask her, but it's possible.
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