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Old 08-29-2017, 10:02 AM
 
Location: Prescott Arizona
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I don't think I've ever met a woman that gets approached more than my buddies wife. Ever since I've known her (about 15 years) I have noticed it. While her husband has dealt with it for years, he told me the other day that he's sick of it, and that he thinks she brings it on herself because of the way she acts.

I'm not so sure. While she does have an outgoing friendly demeanor, I think it has more to do with here looks and clothing choices. While she's pretty average looking all around, she has a novelty sized rear end. Think Kim Kardashian if she put on about 40lbs. Add to this that she wears some type of stretch fit pants most of the time. I would assume it's because finding clothes that fit her shape is probably challenging. Anyways, you can see both men and women do a double take almost anywhere she goes. While her look has never been my cup of tea, her backside is pretty much the first topic of discussion with most guys the second she leaves the room. I just think a lot of guys are into that look, and the fact that she's pretty average looking in the face and really friendly makes her approachable. She also claims that she has always received lots of "unwanted" attention from men because of her shape.

Do you think someone with a novelty type look like this can attract constant unwanted attention as this woman claims, or is it more of a personality thing as her husband believes?

 
Old 08-29-2017, 10:05 AM
 
Location: Dallas Texas
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If want to be happy for the rest of your life, make a ugly woman your wife.
 
Old 08-29-2017, 10:05 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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We all have our crosses to bear.

They've been married a while. If they are secure in their bond and their love for each other, why is he sick of it? If he KNOWS she isn't going to respond to the attention, why is it eating him alive??
 
Old 08-29-2017, 10:06 AM
 
Location: Prescott Arizona
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Originally Posted by Hand McLovin View Post
If want to be happy for the rest of your life, make a ugly woman your wife.
There is too much truth to this.
 
Old 08-29-2017, 10:08 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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A nice body can attract unwanted attention (its nothing new) regardless of personality.

You might want to talk to your BFF about his insecurities.
 
Old 08-29-2017, 10:08 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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What does he want her to do? Wear a muu-muu and never make eye contact with anyone? Interesting-looking people do get attention, but at the end of the day, if she goes home to your buddy and never bats an eye at anyone else, that's what matters.
 
Old 08-29-2017, 10:09 AM
 
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A LOT of women receive unwanted attention because of their shape. When the sexy parts stand out...whether on purpose or not...that's what people will notice.


There are guys that are into boobs, guys in to long legs, and guys into butts. I always got the boob guys. lol
 
Old 08-29-2017, 10:10 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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If want to be happy for the rest of your life, make a ugly woman your wife.
My mother has been telling me that all my life: get with an ugly woman and you'll never cry. SMH Lol
 
Old 08-29-2017, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Prescott Arizona
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We all have our crosses to bear.

They've been married a while. If they are secure in their bond and their love for each other, why is he sick of it? If he KNOWS she isn't going to respond to the attention, why is it eating him alive??
I guess after 15 years of being in the relationship, he's sick of going to the bathroom at a ball game, concert, restaurant etc and coming back to some dude talking to his old lady. I totally get it. Luckily, I don't have that problem, as my wife is built like a 12 year old boy and has a scorching case of resting b**ch face lol
 
Old 08-29-2017, 10:14 AM
 
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"she has a novelty sized rear end"

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