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Old 09-12-2017, 03:09 PM
 
Location: Fairfax, VA
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not every woman is the same. Just sayin.
Sure you can fake it.
I bet some can stop their hearts too.
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Old 09-12-2017, 03:10 PM
 
Location: Fairfax, VA
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here, fixed it for ya
Changing the content of what I wrote does not accomplish anything. But if it amuses you...
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Old 09-12-2017, 03:19 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Changing the content of what I wrote does not accomplish anything. But if it amuses you...
it does!
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Old 09-12-2017, 03:26 PM
 
Location: Fairfax, VA
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it does!
Me too, as you have probably figured out already.
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Old 09-12-2017, 03:31 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Gah...the guy I was last with left me like that every time. Every. Single. Time. It got to the point that I would take an Aleve an hour or 2 before seeing him.
Ya gotta be in shape...get thee to the gym and your stamina will match his.
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Old 09-12-2017, 03:34 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Ya gotta be in shape...get thee to the gym and your stamina will match his.
Stamina has nothing to do with it.
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Old 09-12-2017, 03:40 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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LOL ok playa

Satisfaction is A goal. It's not THE goal. Wow, you can diddle a body part? Congrats.
Little confused.
I think women need to remember they are suppose to get something out of sexual interactions.
If you are getting nothing out of it ex pleasure ... they why have sex?

You should be entitled to be getting satisfied.

I find very often when women stop wanted to have sex it is frequently because the person they are having sex with does not know how to please them. Oh wait ... it would be better for the male ego to just pretend she has chronic fatigue syndrome lol
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Old 09-12-2017, 04:24 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Little confused.
I think women need to remember they are suppose to get something out of sexual interactions.
If you are getting nothing out of it ex pleasure ... they why have sex?

You should be entitled to be getting satisfied.

I find very often when women stop wanted to have sex it is frequently because the person they are having sex with does not know how to please them. Oh wait ... it would be better for the male ego to just pretend she has chronic fatigue syndrome lol
I am not sure what you're talking about. Is this addressed to me?

Of course women should seek satisfaction, if that's what they want. I took issue with one commenter bragging about his habit of treating women like sex toys. I don't know how that fits with chronic fatigue syndrome ...

I'm not a man, if that's what you're thinking.
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Old 09-12-2017, 04:52 PM
 
Location: Fairfax, VA
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What is also confusing is how it is deemed "wrong" (by some people here) to give women exactly what they ask for -- simply because a conscious, deliberate effort is made to do so, and because that effort requires some degree of "research;" and a set of metrics to gauge success.

From the comments I suspect there is a perception of disconnection, manipulation and loss of control that is setting them off. Understandable, however, when do those things not exist, particularly when earnestly trying to please someone else (or when achieving any goal)?



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Little confused.
I think women need to remember they are suppose to get something out of sexual interactions.
If you are getting nothing out of it ex pleasure ... they why have sex?

You should be entitled to be getting satisfied.

I find very often when women stop wanted to have sex it is frequently because the person they are having sex with does not know how to please them. Oh wait ... it would be better for the male ego to just pretend she has chronic fatigue syndrome lol
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Old 09-12-2017, 05:03 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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What is also confusing is how it is deemed "wrong" (by some people here) to give women exactly what they ask for -- simply because a conscious, deliberate effort is made to do so, and because that effort requires some degree of "research;" and a set of metrics to gauge success.
Yeah, that's not your goal, remember?

It's awesome that you would give a woman "what she asks for." Unfortunately, you're not REALLY interested in that - just in the achievement itself.

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I am not trying to make her happy; I am trying to achieve a personal goal...
Hard as you may try here, there is no way to make that sound like something laudable in this context.
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