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Old 09-07-2017, 04:57 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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It's like totally almost the same thing, right? I mean if someone is going to respond positivity to my smile wouldn't smirk illicit the same reaction?


I'm not laughing...
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Old 09-07-2017, 05:24 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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You approach women, forget this "waiting for a woman to approach you" bs.

If you meet a woman and she's interested then ask for her number. If she's interested she will call you or text you.

I will even add this. When dealing with rejection sometimes women are passive by not calling you or texting you and it's their way of letting you know they aren't into you. Or it means she's already messing around with someone -- not a committed relationship--but another man is on her mind and you can't compete with that right now.

Usually with women who do this to me, I call or text them, letting them know, it seems you have another situation going, call me whenever you want to hang out.

After that keep it moving and don't stress over any woman.

So many guys develop this passive aggressive women frustration because of this. Keep it moving. You're not interested in all the women you see, neither are they.
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Old 09-07-2017, 05:24 PM
 
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Running? At this point I'd settle for a gently crawl...
You just gave me an image.
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Old 09-07-2017, 05:35 PM
 
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I'm not laughing...

I think give it a little time. It didn't take me to come to my own until around 28... ironically, that was when women started initiating with me.
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Old 09-07-2017, 06:52 PM
 
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I'm not laughing...
Is it REALLY going to make a difference? Like if I just smirk at a girl she'll turn me down because I didn't exhibit a proper smile?



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You just gave me an image.

Please divulge said image.
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Old 09-07-2017, 06:56 PM
 
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Is it REALLY going to make a difference? Like if I just smirk at a girl she'll turn me down because I didn't exhibit a proper smile?
I can't believe you're seriously equating a smirk with the type of warm smile described earlier!
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Old 09-07-2017, 08:14 PM
 
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Is it REALLY going to make a difference? Like if I just smirk at a girl she'll turn me down because I didn't exhibit a proper smile?






Please divulge said image.
Particularly Ashanti's Only You Video During the bridge of the song.
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Old 09-07-2017, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Well if the smirk doesnt completely repel them, keep in mind that having an OLD profile doesn't mean women will be flocking to you. You're still going to have to put in a lot of effort...
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Old 09-08-2017, 12:22 AM
 
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I can't believe you're seriously equating a smirk with the type of warm smile described earlier!

I'm just saying if a girl smirked at me I'm not going to hold that fact that she didn't smile against her. I get the gist...lawl.

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Particularly Ashanti's Only
You Video During the bridge of the song.
I don't remember the video....but I do remember I had the biggest crush on her when I was a kid. Hooray for YouTube!


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Well if the smirk doesnt completely repel them, keep in mind that having an OLD profile doesn't mean women will be flocking to you. You're still going to have to put in a lot of effort...
I'll have to put in a lot of effort all around it seems...
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Old 09-08-2017, 09:13 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I'll have to put in a lot of effort all around it seems...
The question remains, why do you think you shouldn't have to make any effort? You've mentioned putting effort into your appearance, your education, your career, but your romantic life should just fall into place?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=no0qB8CVspY
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