White men treat Black women better? (married, single, family, relations)

[Ron.]

I was on a message and there was a discussion by black women that was about, White men treating black women better than black men treat them, because white men DO NOT mistreat women. I found that to be very odd thinking. I'm a black guy but I know plenty of white women that grip and moan about being mistreated by white men.





Chime in with your thoughts and views. Do these black women have a point or do they just think "the grass is greener" on the other side?

[Pikantari]

Are you saying that white men treat black women better than black men treat them, or that white men treat black women better than white women...

I am reading that, a few times, and trying to get what you are saying.

I think that in general, any woman could be treated badly by any man, without discrimination to race.

[Ron.]

Cin, you got it.

My appologies. Yes you had it correct. I had it written incorrectly. Thanks for bringing it to my attention!

[Pikantari]

Ok, then... they do not have a point. I hope that they do not think a white man would not ever treat them badly, such is not the case.

Now, find the RIGHT white man, and could be the case. Just not ANY white man

[Ron.]

Cin,

I guess what I'm trying to say is, any man of any race can mistreat women. No race holds the monopoly on mistreating women.


Is it foolish to think someone of another race DOES NOT mistreat women?

[Haaziq]

Any man can treat any woman wrong. It's not a race thing. I can see why in many cases, they would get treated better by white men sometimes. There is the sterotype that black women will actually fight their men. This is true in most cases. I am black and growing up in a black family, I've seen it all, lol. I think there are some white men who see these stereotypes and become scared to **** a black woman off. That's how I see it anyway.

[Ron.]

Man, I don't even know what you're talking about.

[Pikantari]

Originally Posted by ChicagoRon

Cin,

I guess what I'm trying to say is, any man of any race can mistreat women. No race holds the monopoly on mistreating women.


Is it foolish to think someone of another race DOES NOT mistreat women?

Yep, I got that, it was in one of my other posts up above.

[Haaziq]

Originally Posted by ChicagoRon

Man, I don't even know what you're talking about.

There is a stereotype that black women will always fight with their men. There are many who would try to avoid that. Not to say that that's why a lot of white men treat them good, but I'm sure that's the reason for at least a few cases. Not to say that it's right, but it happens.

[undertheironsea]

Some people are just really bad in relationships. Doesn't matter the color. Two people exactly alike in every single way could wind up getting married and hate one another.