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Old 10-10-2017, 09:42 PM
Status: "Just livin' day by day" (set 23 days ago)
 
Location: USA
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In a few years, he will be 50....And I thought it was embarrassing that i didn't lose mine until I was 29... We been dating awhile. He was raised in a strict religious upbringing that sex was reserved until marriage.
i respect that. I know he loves me and cherish our time together enjoying each other's company when we're together. As far as progressing the relationship further into engagement then marriage, he doesn't seem all that interested.

What would cause a man not care all that much about losing his virginity?
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Old 10-10-2017, 09:47 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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In a few years, he will be 50....And I thought it was embarrassing that i didn't lose mine until I was 29... We been dating awhile. He was raised in a strict religious upbringing that sex was reserved until marriage.
i respect that. I know he loves me and cherish our time together enjoying each other's company when we're together. As far as progressing the relationship further into engagement then marriage, he doesn't seem all that interested.

What would cause a man not care all that much about losing his virginity?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality
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Old 10-10-2017, 09:47 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Viginity was a curse. Losing it was fine.
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Old 10-10-2017, 10:04 PM
Status: "Just livin' day by day" (set 23 days ago)
 
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Viginity was a curse. Losing it was fine.
I had no interest in sex until almost 30. Not sure what happened. Maybe it was crawling out of my shy, comfort zone slowly aftwr the loss of my sister and realizing life is short and then the loss of a long time family friend who died way too young that had got me realize life is short, live it up. Now my hormones are raging like a 18yr. old young man
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Old 10-10-2017, 10:07 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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What would cause a man not care all that much about losing his virginity?
A traumatic brain injury is the only thing I can think of.
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Old 10-10-2017, 10:21 PM
Status: "Just livin' day by day" (set 23 days ago)
 
Location: USA
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A traumatic brain injury is the only thing I can think of.
he has never spoke of a serious accident involving his brain
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Old 10-10-2017, 10:26 PM
 
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he has never spoke of a serious accident involving his brain
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He was raised in a strict religious upbringing that sex was reserved until marriage.
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Old 10-10-2017, 10:39 PM
 
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What would cause a man not care all that much about losing his virginity?
Cant help u there. Ask him not us.
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Old 10-10-2017, 11:42 PM
 
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In a few years, he will be 50....And I thought it was embarrassing that i didn't lose mine until I was 29... We been dating awhile. He was raised in a strict religious upbringing that sex was reserved until marriage.
i respect that. I know he loves me and cherish our time together enjoying each other's company when we're together. As far as progressing the relationship further into engagement then marriage, he doesn't seem all that interested.

What would cause a man not care all that much about losing his virginity?
Well if he’s gotten to almost 50 without sex, he has probably found other ways to occupy his time.
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Old 10-11-2017, 01:04 AM
 
Location: Eugene, Oregon
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In a few years, he will be 50....And I thought it was embarrassing that i didn't lose mine until I was 29... We been dating awhile. He was raised in a strict religious upbringing that sex was reserved until marriage.
i respect that. I know he loves me and cherish our time together enjoying each other's company when we're together. As far as progressing the relationship further into engagement then marriage, he doesn't seem all that interested.

What would cause a man not care all that much about losing his virginity?

You need look no further than that "strict religious upbringing", to find the cause of his dysfunctional sex drive. That has messed-up the lives of countless people. His apathy about it and your "raging hormones" seem at odds, regarding your chances for having a satisfactory long-term relationship.
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