Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
I'm curious what for you is the most frustrating part of dating or the part that you have the most problems with?
Also from a girl's perspective, what's the part that annoys you or you hate that guys do(or don't do) during dating, or at a first date, or even when they approach you?
For me the biggest problem in dating was always approaching a girl during the day. I would always get very nervous because I thought of a million things that could go wrong or that I would run out of things to say so I would talk myself out of it.
Now my biggest is long term relationships and knowing exactly what I actually want in a long term relationship and what type of girl I'd like to be with.
Would love to know what everyone else is dealing with and what you find difficult.
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
26,691 posts, read 41,629,721 times
Reputation: 41324
- Getting rejected.
- Having to initiate everything as a guy.
- Having to pay as a guy.
- Experiencing anguish if she will say yes to a date or not.
- Keeping a convo going and you'll probably have to ask all the questions.
I thought I remember you posting you've never been on a date. How can you be frustrated with something you've never done before?
For me:
Flaky women
Ghosting (seriously, just say we don't mesh and be done with it)
Having to initiate everything (Right there with you Diss)
Mini-golf (lol seriously, I hate it. Whoever thinks this is a fun date activity please try and explain it because I absolutely hate this)
And I guess as a counter, having women think that just because I talk to them that I want to date them. (Really I don't. I'm just being friendly/social.)
- Getting rejected.
- Having to initiate everything as a guy.
- Having to pay as a guy.
- Experiencing anguish if she will say yes to a date or not.
- Keeping a convo going and you'll probably have to ask all the questions.
Pick one. I hate ALL those parts of dating.
What part of initiating do you hate? Is it that you can get rejected there, or something else?
I might be wrong, but from the points you made it sounds like it's mainly the fear of rejection? Why do you care about getting rejected, does it make you feel unwanted or something else?
Just curious on those, I know fear of rejection was a big one for me. Even now I still get nervous and feel that fear of getting rejected, but my mind's always better at creating all these scenarios that I could get rejected that actually never happen. It's almost always a positive experience even if they're not interested.
Are you on online dating apps? Is it just hard to get girls to agree to go on a date or do they just say no?
I tried old and never got a response back..so I stopped
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
