Lies and sexting with the intension of cheating (wife, internet, relations)
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I have a girlfriend for 2.5 years now but i found out from an investigator that she has been going to male friends houses without letting me know about it. She said many lies to me that i will go to a females house insted she went to a males friend.she had sexting with another bloke with the intension of sexual intercource i found out by the investigator.when i comfronted her she told me that i wanted to get revenge of him because he is an assle.i didnt believe her because she already was lying.she told me to give her a second chance but i cant.can you help me please its very important to me.
I have a girlfriend for 2.5 years now but i found out from an investigator that she has been going to male friends houses without letting me know about it. She said many lies to me that i will go to a females house insted she went to a males friend.she had sexting with another bloke with the intension of sexual intercource i found out by the investigator.when i comfronted her she told me that i wanted to get revenge of him because he is an assle.i didnt believe her because she already was lying.she told me to give her a second chance but i cant.can you help me please its very important to me.
So you hired a PI and found out the truth about your gf and yet you STILL want advice?Why can't you just end the relationship?! Very simple thing to do.Trust is broken and that should be the end of it for you but it's not.You stick with this person and nothing will change.
So you hired a PI and found out the truth about your gf and yet you STILL want advice?Why can't you just end the relationship?! Very simple thing to do.Trust is broken and that should be the end of it for you but it's not.You stick with this person and nothing will change.
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And that is no joke. You mourn! It hurts! It damn well makes you feel like your head wants to explode. Or your heart. Take your pick.
One thing I learned early on (when I was bumping my head a lot) is that the best cure for one woman is another woman. Go find another one! Move on.
Here's a plan. Stay with this one for the sex while you look for someone else. Once you find that someone else and get established, it will be easy to dump this one.
And that is no joke. You mourn! It hurts! It damn well makes you feel like your head wants to explode. Or your heart. Take your pick.
One thing I learned early on (when I was bumping my head a lot) is that the best cure for one woman is another woman. Go find another one! Move on.
Here's a plan. Stay with this one for the sex while you look for someone else. Once you find that someone else and get established, it will be easy to dump this one.
Not so good a plan-- more like a disaster waiting to happen. He stays with her "just for sex" and... gets more attached, more desperate, while knowing she's messing around..not a good combination. Or... he stays with her for sex, then he bails out after meeting someone and gets a call she's pregnant.
Or he bails out for new person and realizes he still wants to be with his girlfriend and now has to crawl back.
Iow I think ending it, healing and then down the road finding someone without all the strings and complications is healthiest and safest
Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not boast. It is not proud.
It does not hire a private investigator to check up on your online activities.
Nor does it sneak around and slide into your DMs.
It is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered.
It does not like bikini photos of other hoes on Instagram.
Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.
Love bears all things, believes all things, endures all things.
Except if you don't text back. Then it gets pissed.
I don't understand this. He was proven right not to trust her. He thought something was up, and it was. If he wasnt trusting, and it turned it was for nothing, and she was faithful, then you would have a reason to point the finger at him for being mistrustful, but he was right.
It's kind of like the woman I saw last year. As soon as I showed her I was doubtful about things she would say, she'd pull the "how can we build anything without trust"? Meanwhile, she had started seeing someone behind my back, and lying when I told her I knew. She would bring up the trust thing.
IF YOU'RE LYING NO ONE SHOULD TRUST YOU!
What part is difficult to understand? If the investigator had found nothing, it would not have changed the fact that he does not trust her. Lack of trust is a big problem.
(It's not "finger pointing". It's acknowledgment of a fundamental problem.)
I have a girlfriend for 2.5 years now but i found out from an investigator that she has been going to male friends houses without letting me know about it. She said many lies to me that i will go to a females house insted she went to a males friend.she had sexting with another bloke with the intension of sexual intercource i found out by the investigator.when i comfronted her she told me that i wanted to get revenge of him because he is an assle.i didnt believe her because she already was lying.she told me to give her a second chance but i cant.can you help me please its very important to me.
If you have so little trust in your gf that you need to hire a PI track her every move, why not just dump her??
What part is difficult to understand? If the investigator had found nothing, it would not have changed the fact that he does not trust her. Lack of trust is a big problem.
(It's not "finger pointing". It's acknowledgment of a fundamental problem.)
But there was a reason for him to be mistrustful. It isn't terrible not to trust someone when it turns out they are deceitful.
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