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Is it too much to want a future partner with a similar history to mine? What's wrong with a virgin wanting another virgin regardless if they are threatened by someone's history or not?
There's nothing wrong with that.
But that means you should have nothing at all to say about women with experience.
Have a preference, but don't use that preference to insult people who don't fit into it.
Women don't just say they wouldn't date a man with inexperience, it's usually followed by there must be something wrong with him or it's a red flag.
...and they are usually right except in the case of certain rigid religious groups, which is a whole other thing. I understand that there are people who don't have sex, or who don't drink alcohol, or who won't eat any animal products, or who don't listen to or consider other viewpoints (political or religious), etc....
I just can't imagine why they want to limit themselves so much in their lives.
Women don't just say they wouldn't date a man with inexperience, it's usually followed by there must be something wrong with him or it's a red flag.
I agree that people should not shame each other for the choices they make.
That doesn't change the fact that people can have very messed up reasons for making those choices.
I personally believe that virginity as a status is so incredibly overblown. Everyone's circumstances and reasoning are different, and we all should just be happy to choose whether or not we would be with someone on a case-by-case basis.
Regardless, the way our society works, people generally reach certain milestones at certain times, so those who have not done that for whatever reason are viewed with more ... discernment.
...and they are usually right except in the case of certain rigid religious groups, which is a whole other thing. I understand that there are people who don't have sex, or who don't drink alcohol, or who won't eat any animal products, or who don't listen to or consider other viewpoints (political or religious), etc....
I just can't imagine why they want to limit themselves so much in their lives.
Oh totally not true. There is nothing wrong with someone just because they want to remain a virgin until they are married. Maybe there is something wrong with blindly following the herd, lol?
Just because a majority of people are doing something, that doesn't mean its the 'superior' thing to do.
I.ve met a couple of young men who were saving themselves for marriage. It wasn't for religious reasons either. They wanted to experience sex on the level of 'special'.
Are they right? Will it be 'special'? Probably. I don't think anyone can say they have ever had a better sex partner than someone they truly love.
I.ve met a couple of young men who were saving themselves for marriage. It wasn't for religious reasons either. They wanted to experience sex on the level of 'special'.
That's fine in principle but where exactly are they going to find a virgin bride?
They narrow their selection down so much. In the end they might have to compromise compatibility just for sex. And after a week or two the novelty wears off anyway.
I've been in bed with six virgins. Trust me - an experienced girl is far preferable!
Just for starters, there is no such thing as sex after the second or third date.
That's fine in principle but where exactly are they going to find a virgin bride?
They narrow their selection down so much. In the end they might have to compromise compatibility just for sex. And after a week or two the novelty wears off anyway.
I've been in bed with six virgins. Trust me - an experienced girl is far preferable!
Just for starters, there is no such thing as sex after the second or third date.
Well, probably not at the local night club, lol. Were you in love with any of the six virgins? Were you even looking for love? Somehow...I doubt it.
Believe it or not, there are still some women in the world who think more highly of themselves than just to use their body as an amusement park, lol.
If you feel the majority of the female herd you have encountered gives themselves away easily, consider yourself lucky. It seems like that is the easily dismissed experience you are looking for.
I get the impression that some people believe everything sexual is mutually exclusive, like no virgins can understand love or that all people with experience are throwaways.
It's not that black and white, y'all.
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