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This guy does not want to be your boyfriend/husband or anything of that nature. It sounds like he's barely even your friend.
You sound very immature and inexperienced in relationships in general.
well if he doesn't want to be any of.of.the.things why does he spend all tht.time with me.and arranges to meet.up with ke why he should just cut it off.completely then
Men bond with sex. Sex doesn't guarantee bonding, but no sex will usually prevent bonding. There are always exceptions, but it is pretty much how men are wired.
iv heard stories where men can do that be with a women whilst holding out on sex. and it's not like he gets noting at all is it
I would not open up to a woman I am not having sex with. I might open up to a degree in order to build a relationship but one that is clearly not going anywhere is not going to get too deeply into my inner space. Plus I would continue looking at my other options.
That's why I suggest you find someone who also wants to wait until the wedding night.
u would look at other options just because you're not gettin sex. I'm sorry but that just to me sounds terrible.. and as I said earlier there is some physical aspects involved
iv heard stories where men can do that be with a women whilst holding out on sex. and it's not like he gets noting at all is it
Well, your guy isn't. Thus.... following 300 women on instagram.
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u would look at other options just because you're not gettin sex. I'm sorry but that just to me sounds terrible.. and as I said earlier there is some physical aspects involved
I'm a sensual, caring, loving person. I also have a high end sex drive. I want to have a full and carefree courtship with all the intimacy that goes with it. I want to build that relationship. Withholding sex and intimacy is artificial and just doesn't work for me.
I'm not into the idea of getting sex somewhere else while I wait for my wedding night either. How does that equate to building a close, intimate relationship?
I'm a sensual, caring, loving person. I also have a high end sex drive. I want to have a full and carefree courtship with all the intimacy that goes with it. I want to build that relationship. Withholding sex and intimacy is artificial and just doesn't work for me.
I'm not into the idea of getting sex somewhere else while I wait for my wedding night either. How does that equate to building a close, intimate relationship?
so u think that he's just lookig for other women now and he doesn't care about me, even though he's still choosing to meet up and do things
so u think that he's just lookig for other women now and he doesn't care about me, even though he's still choosing to meet up and do things
Are you a child? Do you really think you can hold on to a man for two years with handj0bs and oral? Seriously? He'll take whatever he can get from you and who knows however many other women out there. What makes you think you're so special he's waiting for you? I don't even know if I'd call what you have an FWB...ask him if he'll marry you and tell us the answer if you're so confident.
your telling me he's trying to find women to sleep with. I swear if that turns out to be true he will wish he never did that
No, he may just masturbate to them. You seem young, and naive, and not very familiar with men.
Why do YOU think he is following them? Fashion?
Guys will hug on ya, love on ya, and take ya out to dinner. They could still be sleeping with 30 other women, one does not negate the other. You don't seem to get that.
Not saying your guy isn't doing that, not saying he is.
What I am saying is: you find his behavior unacceptable, he doesn't want to change it
YOU need to choose to stay and accept it, or go. That's all there is to it.
Him hugging you doesn't matter, him not wanting to break up doesn't matter, your not understanding how he could behave this doesn't matter......
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