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Old 11-12-2017, 08:49 PM
 
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To preface, I am best friends with my sister and would never want to do anything to damage our friendship. However, I feel like I am truly interested in her friend. We have hung out a couple times before and we have both seemed to have a pretty good time. I have strong feelings for her, and every time I see her I cannot stop thinking about her... I like everything about her from her personality to her looks.

This may seem like an elementary crush but this feels totally different. I truly cannot find a flaw in this girl, and truly want nothing more than the ability to tell her in one way or another. Even if the relationship doesn't work out, I would love to get this off my chest and have her know it. Then again, I don't really want to ruin the friendship we have either....

The only problems with possibly forming a relationship:
1. She is almost 21, I am 19.
2. She is good friends with my sister.
3. We are both from Florida, but she goes to University in Alabama and I go to University in Florida.

Overall, I am unsure if I should tell her that I like her. The takeaway here is that my sister is my best friend and I would never want to do anything that would damage our relationship. I feel as though she wouldn't be too surprised if I told her, but I am still not sure.

Thanks for responding/reading! All advice is welcome!
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Old 11-12-2017, 08:54 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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You have to decide if this:

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To preface, I am best friends with my sister and would never want to do anything to damage our friendship.

The takeaway here is that my sister is my best friend and I would never want to do anything that would damage our relationship.
... is really true.


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I feel as though she wouldn't be too surprised if I told her, but I am still not sure.
That's what you HOPE will happen, but how realistic is it?
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Old 11-12-2017, 09:00 PM
 
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Honestly, I feel like it is pretty realistic. She has already told me that her friend likes me, so I don't think she would be very surprised if I told her that I like her too... but I guess I can never be too sure. I guess I just have to determine whether the chance of forming a new friendship is worth possibly damaging the one I have with my sister.
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Old 11-12-2017, 10:34 PM
 
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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Why would telling her do anything to the relationship you have with your sister?
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Old 11-14-2017, 08:37 PM
 
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She has already told me that her friend likes me...
Dude, go for it - what are you waiting for?
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