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Old 11-17-2017, 02:19 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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The responses don't surprise me. I can't count how many men when told "I'm married" have said it doesn't matter to them if it doesn't matter to me.
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Old 11-17-2017, 02:23 PM
 
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I’ve been bowling with this woman now for 2 months, and in the beginning, as we started to talk she has told me about how she loves her husband, but he doesn’t give her what she needs (meaning sex). Well now, 2 months into our league she and I have become “flirty” with each other everytime we bowl on sat nights together. We’ve both sent each other nude pictures of ourselves, and talk about wanting to have sex with each other all the time. I’m a single man, so i have no attachments but nor do I have any feelings for this woman either. I just figure I haven’t had sex in a while, (great sex never) and that this is my opportunity to have it for once. If we did though i’m concerned about having a guilty feeling about what we did, and of course we would have to keep it a secret from everyone, including her husband. I’m unsure what to do. Any advice?
You have no right to be privy to information regarding their intimacy.
So certainly you have no right to stab this guy in the heart either
Being single, you must be pretty desperate to be bowling with a married woman.
Get a conscious
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Old 11-17-2017, 05:48 PM
 
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The responses don't surprise me. I can't count how many men when told "I'm married" have said it doesn't matter to them if it doesn't matter to me.
I remember those days....
It used to blow me away since it felt so out of the blue
Being old has its perks! none of that junk
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Old 11-18-2017, 04:35 AM
 
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This entire thread is blame shifting. Guys. Women have agency. I thought at this point with all the "men are irrelevant" and "women can do whatever they want" (i agree) you'd finally start taking some responsibility for your actions.
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Old 11-18-2017, 07:07 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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This entire thread is blame shifting. Guys. Women have agency. I thought at this point with all the "men are irrelevant" and "women can do whatever they want" (i agree) you'd finally start taking some responsibility for your actions.
Oh stop. The woman didn't come here asking advice. If she had, she would have gotten the same blame.

It's happened before; it'll happen again. But facts don't fit your agenda.
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Old 11-18-2017, 07:29 AM
 
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Oh stop. The woman didn't come here asking advice. If she had, she would have gotten the same blame.

It's happened before; it'll happen again. But facts don't fit your agenda.
Do you have an agenda? Or is what you discuss just your opinion? Because I just have opinions. I don't think in the history of CD anybody has actually changed their mind.
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Old 11-18-2017, 07:46 AM
 
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Do you have an agenda? Or is what you discuss just your opinion? Because I just have opinions. I don't think in the history of CD anybody has actually changed their mind.
New posters have changed their minds. Long-timers not so much.

I do have opinions, just like you do, but mine are correct.
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Old 11-18-2017, 08:55 AM
 
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New posters have changed their minds. Long-timers not so much.

I do have opinions, just like you do, but mine are correct.
Sad mindset to have, that only your opinion can be correct. Part of the problem, really. *shrugs*
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Old 11-18-2017, 10:03 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Oh stop. The woman didn't come here asking advice. If she had, she would have gotten the same blame.

It's happened before; it'll happen again. But facts don't fit your agenda.

It's a guy asking the question.

Do a search when it's woman it's the same reaction to it. Quit trying to make up problems.

Edit: Not you BirdieBelle, I meant to quote RedWinga
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Old 11-18-2017, 10:59 AM
 
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The responses don't surprise me. I can't count how many men when told "I'm married" have said it doesn't matter to them if it doesn't matter to me.
All these male posters here who say they would never sleep with a married woman, maybe half of them would if the married woman offered to have no-strings attached sex.

The mind is strong. Sometimes the little guy is stronger.
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