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Old 01-30-2009, 02:01 PM
 
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Everyones looks go away eventually so if you cant deal with that then marriage is certianly not for you..
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Old 01-30-2009, 04:42 PM
 
Location: following the wind of change
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A friend of mine was so excited about his girl friend who eventually became his wife. She was such a beauty and my friend was so excited to be with someone who was so sexy and attractive. While there were other aspects of their relationship, the physical attraction on both sides was the big thing. Being beautiful was always what gave her credibility with friends and coworkers. That was her identity, the beautiful women. And she was beautiful! Tragically that was all lost when she got into an accident and now her beauty is gone for ever. Could you continue your relationship with your spouse if something terrible happened to him or her and the beauty was gone?
Uh, yeah. If the relationship wasn't based on the superficial in the first place. If my "hubby" didn't come from the Chippandale stock complete with a neck bow tie and I don't have to parade him around like a peacock so the common folks can gasp in the stunning blinding beauty in front of them? Then yeah, it will definitely be a no-brainer.
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Old 01-30-2009, 04:47 PM
 
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A friend of mine was so excited about his girl friend who eventually became his wife. She was such a beauty and my friend was so excited to be with someone who was so sexy and attractive. While there were other aspects of their relationship, the physical attraction on both sides was the big thing. Being beautiful was always what gave her credibility with friends and coworkers. That was her identity, the beautiful women. And she was beautiful! Tragically that was all lost when she got into an accident and now her beauty is gone for ever. Could you continue your relationship with your spouse if something terrible happened to him or her and the beauty was gone?
If I couldn't it would only prove that I was very shallow and heartless,and never loved my significant other in the first place.
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Old 01-30-2009, 04:48 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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A friend of mine was so excited about his girl friend who eventually became his wife. She was such a beauty and my friend was so excited to be with someone who was so sexy and attractive. While there were other aspects of their relationship, the physical attraction on both sides was the big thing. Being beautiful was always what gave her credibility with friends and coworkers. That was her identity, the beautiful women. And she was beautiful! Tragically that was all lost when she got into an accident and now her beauty is gone for ever. Could you continue your relationship with your spouse if something terrible happened to him or her and the beauty was gone?
I'd be more concerned with the type of people she surrounded herself with. Sounds like a bunch of doozies.

I don't know but I imagine if you were really in love with someone--as opposed to their looks--it would be hard to stop loving them over looks. Or lack of.
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Old 01-30-2009, 05:00 PM
 
Location: Hampton, VA
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A friend of mine was so excited about his girl friend who eventually became his wife. She was such a beauty and my friend was so excited to be with someone who was so sexy and attractive. While there were other aspects of their relationship, the physical attraction on both sides was the big thing. Being beautiful was always what gave her credibility with friends and coworkers. That was her identity, the beautiful women. And she was beautiful! Tragically that was all lost when she got into an accident and now her beauty is gone for ever. Could you continue your relationship with your spouse if something terrible happened to him or her and the beauty was gone?
Beauty is only skin deep. I couldn't be with the person that long if nothing else really made me fall in love with them. As long as they were still the same person, I'm sure I would still be with them.
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Old 01-30-2009, 05:05 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma
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Yes I could still love my man if the looks went away.
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