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Originally Posted by Northside904
Yes and No. Maybe their sex drive isn't as high as their spouse's, and if that causes one spouse to cheat, then cheating was in the back of their minds all along.
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I dont think so in many cases.
I think that when people continue to neglict, mistreat or ignore their parenters for prolong periods of time they also need to take some accountabily for why the relationship failed regardless if it just ends or their parenter starts to take interest in other people.
Then again by reading these comments from all sides I think bottom line is some people are just use to or more likely to put up with being neglected and are not use to getting what the want.
I must fully spell out that I come from the city where Ashley Madison was created.
I am not in support of cheating, but in think over the last few years I have explored this topic more and more out of curiosity. I know that had always been under the banner of "cheaters are horrible ... it is as simple as that", but after researching the topic more and hearing the stories from so many different perspectives..... I am seeing the grey area is a lot wider on this topic.
The tag phrase for Ashley Madison is "Life is short".....
And I now more then ever get what it is a epic marketing tool.
It speaks directly to all those people who are in dull sexless relationships.....
They might love their parenters in so many ways .... but I just tired of not getting what they fully want out of the relationship and LIFE IS short..... why toss your life way being miserable because the person you are with wont have sex with you. Not having sex with your partner opens the opportunity for them to
1. Continue to live a 1/2 mass for the rest of their lives
or
2. The persue other methods of getting a sexual release
People that chose to withdraw physically from their relationships ... have infact crack the door open for temptation.
But ... that is just my opinion.
I am sure "team giving him blue balls" is not a problem think otherwise.
Then again I come from a major city and legend has it that city flokes have a high level on entitlement to getting what they want vs taking what they can get. I do notice many members of "team blue balls" live in middle of no where.
At the end of the day as long as both people are happy that is what matters.... let's just hope one is just not pretending to be happy.