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Old 12-06-2017, 09:41 AM
 
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I can’t block her just yet. We opened up a phone plan together and I’m the owner of the plan. She blocked my number, so I’m unable to get in contact with her. If she doesn’t contact me by tonight then I’m going to report her phone as stolen and press charges against her if I can since the phone is technically mine and I want to return it or at least cancel the line.
Why are you waiting for her to contact you? You are allowing her to control you.

Stop it. Cancel the damn phone, there's your revenge.
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Old 12-06-2017, 09:45 AM
 
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Put her on The Dirty.
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Old 12-06-2017, 09:52 AM
 
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Because if I do nothing, then she leaves unscathed and I’ll be the only one who’s hurt from this. I want to hurt her in some way as well (not physically).
Oh... Never mind.

I was going to give you a guy's number who does favors.

Lol!
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Old 12-06-2017, 09:58 AM
 
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If you could get that phone and smash it on the ground in front of her.... Boy that would be awesome!!!
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Old 12-06-2017, 09:59 AM
 
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If you could get that phone and smash it on the ground in front of her.... Boy that would be awesome!!!
I guess it would be because it was a phone that she really wanted, but that’d be stupid on my part due to the fact that I not only paid for it but I’m also on the hook for making payments on it.
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Old 12-06-2017, 11:02 AM
 
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I’m the owner of the plan. We had an agreement that we’d split the bills, but I’m the only one who’s on the hook for the payments and I paid for the phone. She threatened to get it unlocked (which may be illegal) and basically hold me hostage for the bills. How is that not stealing?
You willingly put her on the plan. You can sue her in civil court later if need be (would be complete waste of time) but dear God, it's not a matter for the police.

AND you're waiting for her to contact you? Lol. You're playing games too...


*nevermind- just read some of your other posts. MANY issues brewing here.
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Old 12-06-2017, 11:33 AM
 
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You willingly put her on the plan. You can sue her in civil court later if need be (would be complete waste of time) but dear God, it's not a matter for the police.

AND you're waiting for her to contact you? Lol. You're playing games too...


*nevermind- just read some of your other posts. MANY issues brewing here.
I was waiting on her to contact me so we could set a time up to go into the store together so she could get released from the plan. We agreed on that last night. At least know the context before trying to paint me as crazy.
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Old 12-06-2017, 11:44 AM
 
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Revenge is not a valid motive, it’s an emotional response. No. Not vengeance. Punishment- Frank Castle.
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Old 12-06-2017, 11:46 AM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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if you pursue revenge, she will still win.

Instead of her being the bad one, it will just be you carrying out her vengeful tasks. If you succumb to these impulses, it will prove that she still has control over you.

Choosing not to do it will be the way to put her in her place once and for all.
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you're just hurt and angry.

You need to be more mature with your feelings. The best revenge is living a happy/successful life without that person.
+1.
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Old 12-06-2017, 11:56 AM
 
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Most of the advice here is crap, like I said not vengeance, punishment.
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